brothermartin Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I would suggest, since you have no children involved, start following up the name-calling and mean comments you get from him with a firm and resounding "F**K YOU!" Otherwise, try spending as little time at home with him as you possibly can. Good luck with the divorce and if you happen to find yourself in FLA and in need of assistance, holla at me.
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 29, 2007 Author Posted December 29, 2007 She is my child. I had her before we were married but he put such emphasis on how her dad wasn't involved in her life and how could her dad do that and HE would never do something like that. Well he did. He put on such a show. She believed like I did that he was going to be there forever. When she would talk about things like going to college or getting a car or when she got married it was always him not her dad. He helped her with her math and played games with us and took us with her friends to movies and such. She saw him as her dad but he dumped her also. He has not seen or spoken to her since then end of September. I thought at least he would try and explain and still offer her friendship but he said we don't exist for him anymore and not me but her also. How could he do that? Wow, I am so sorry to your daughter. It has to be rough on her, having a father figure and then he just up and walk out of her life. It's not fair to either of you. He should at least have the consideration to talk to her, explain things, maybe even offer to be there if she ever needs anything?
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 29, 2007 Author Posted December 29, 2007 I would suggest, since you have no children involved, start following up the name-calling and mean comments you get from him with a firm and resounding "F**K YOU!" Otherwise, try spending as little time at home with him as you possibly can. Good luck with the divorce and if you happen to find yourself in FLA and in need of assistance, holla at me. Well thanks you BM:-) Yeah I really need to stop taking the verbal insults and stand up better to it. And you're right, less time at home would be healthy. I try and occupy myself as much as I can.
Ronni_W Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 I need massive support, Hey EP. Sending hugs, and wishing you all the strength and Guidance you need to get through and beyond this. Ronni
Author ElvenPriestess Posted December 29, 2007 Author Posted December 29, 2007 Thank you Ronni, much appreciated.
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