Only_Me Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I've been in an LDR for a little over a year and we see each other once every other month. Our main source of communication is the phone and email. Lately, he's been telling me about a girl he's been talking to a lot. They are just friends according to him but they email one another all day long. They text message each other. They don't talk on the phone as far as I know. She is also out of state. I'm really angry about this because he doesn't even email me as much anymore so where is he finding the time to email her back and forth all damn day long? Do I have a right to get mad at this. I've never been a jealous person, which is why my anger surprises me. I haven't said anything to him yet, I had to think about it.
Author Only_Me Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 Come on guys, 28 views and no responses. Please give me some advice
purplebubbles Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I don't think you should be mad at him for not contacting you as much as he is contacting her, but you should be asking yourself WHY he doesn't want to contact you in the same way? That would be the question that I would be posing to my boyfriend if I were in the same situation as what you are. Friendships with the opposite sex are quite a sticky thing in relationships. There is a line there, just for some people the line is in a different place. In my relationship, if my boyfriend were doing what yours was, then it would not be acceptable to me.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 I don't think you should be mad at him for not contacting you as much as he is contacting her, but you should be asking yourself WHY he doesn't want to contact you in the same way? That would be the question that I would be posing to my boyfriend if I were in the same situation as what you are. Friendships with the opposite sex are quite a sticky thing in relationships. There is a line there, just for some people the line is in a different place. In my relationship, if my boyfriend were doing what yours was, then it would not be acceptable to me. just because you have never been a jealous person has anything to do with it.. I consider myself as never been a jealous person, but once I found someone who I cared about a lot, i found myself doing more things that I never have done before. I would be upset about the matter whether it is a female or a male.. If he has the time to email someone else, then he should have equal amount as time to spend with you. If he is spending so much time emailing this otther girl then he is definately trying to get to know her on a more personal level.. I would question his motive? and the relationship
Ping Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 you love him in your life, but not let youself live for him.
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