randuff Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I think I am actually starting to accept the finality of it all. I still care about her and said I wanted what was best for her. I believe she is happy now and even if it is without me I think I can feel good knowing that what we had was good and I am happy I was able to share these times with her. I will move on one day and completely be over it all and these last 2 weeks of really LC have really really proven to me that it isn't all that bad without her in my life. Art Critic's signature really sums it all up : "One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.."
s_n_d Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 (edited) Same here. But lll always have HOPE that maybe someday my ex and I will be together again.. Edited December 28, 2007 by s_n_d
BalancenLuv20 Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 I think I am actually starting to accept the finality of it all. I still care about her and said I wanted what was best for her. I believe she is happy now and even if it is without me I think I can feel good knowing that what we had was good and I am happy I was able to share these times with her. I will move on one day and completely be over it all and these last 2 weeks of really LC have really really proven to me that it isn't all that bad without her in my life. Art Critic's signature really sums it all up : "One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.." It sounds like we are at about the same point now Randuff. I have at least come to accept that there is nothing I can do to turn back time. I'll go about 3 or 4 sometimes 5 days and be fairly content and then i'll have one day where i'll let her really get to me, but it's getting better than before when it was everyday. The truth is like getting a painful shot at the doctor's office. You want to put it off for as long as possible, but sooner or later you will have to face it and you can either let it bring you down forever or take a deep breath, take it in, and accept the fact that it is there to guide you to being a genuine and strong human being who can keep moving on the path of righteousness and away from the deceptions and wrongs that life throws at us.
s_n_d Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 It sounds like we are at about the same point now Randuff. I have at least come to accept that there is nothing I can do to turn back time. I'll go about 3 or 4 sometimes 5 days and be fairly content and then i'll have one day where i'll let her really get to me, but it's getting better than before when it was everyday. The truth is like getting a painful shot at the doctor's office. You want to put it off for as long as possible, but sooner or later you will have to face it and you can either let it bring you down forever or take a deep breath, take it in, and accept the fact that it is there to guide you to being a genuine and strong human being who can keep moving on the path of righteousness and away from the deceptions and wrongs that life throws at us. Thats very deep. && I have to agree with that.
Author randuff Posted December 29, 2007 Author Posted December 29, 2007 Yep, absolutely. I have always wondered though, what makes people obsess over someone they know is bad for them. Why is that? I never could understand why we do that... I guess it would be easier if we didn't... Oh well, at least I am finally getting closer to the "end." It has been a loong road for sure.
Fandabby Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 (edited) Yep, absolutely. I have always wondered though, what makes people obsess over someone they know is bad for them. Why is that? I never could understand why we do that... I guess it would be easier if we didn't... Oh well, at least I am finally getting closer to the "end." It has been a loong road for sure. its like smoking, its bad for you but your addicted, thats what love is,you become use to sombody, and how there way of life and yours combines and makes a new way of life in which you both take, and if your hurting thats when love becomes bad for you, but your addicted, somtimes its cuz your scared of change, somtimes your caught of guard and you havent adjusted to loseing them, like if sombody tuc all my cigs away and said you cant smoke, id freak out cause i havent made the choice to stop even tho its bad for me, but if i choose to stop its a differnt matter, same as if we get dumped by sombody whos hurting us we freak out still even though they are bad for us, cause we havent choosen to end the relationship and we havent expected it so we just get told to adjust and deal with it , right this can get confuseing but i see it as theres 2 types of pain, pain 1 and pain 2, there differnt cause, when your in a relationship and its bad for you , you have pain 1, but if the person dumps you, you get pain 2 , and most people think the cure to pain 2 is trying to get back with the person no matter what, not realising there going back to pain 1, thats why people need to realise, you will never be happy with them, but you will be happy after ''time'' without them ( read my story it might help) P.s - and NC is the way to go, cause if you still contact them etc, you feel pain 1 and pain 2 at same time Edited December 29, 2007 by Fandabby
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