kirikat Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 1.) Whenever I think about him, I am going to let the thought go. 2.) When I start having those arguments with him and my head, I am just going to drop it. 3.) Im going to start eating right and getting excercise and not spend 44 hours a day chained to my computer (secretly hoping to get an IM hello...) Just like any other addiction, Im going to do it one day at a time. Any one else?
Ashbash11 Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 Yup. 1) Truly get over my ex... not just say that I am going to, but actually DO it. 2) Maintain NC until I meet someone else and I feel that the emotional attachment has been broken. 3) Move forward and be thankful for all of the good things in my life, and the good memories that I have with my ex. Although I may get sad from time to time, I have to realize that I am simply mouring the loss, but it will subside...
carrotgirl Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 I made an appointment with a cosmetic surgeon to discuss getting rid of the lines around my mouth! Carrot
s_n_d Posted December 29, 2007 Posted December 29, 2007 I wish i could honestly say Im going to get over my ex. But the truth is I dont think I will get over him anytime soon.
PinkRibbon Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 1. Accept the ex is not coming back. Which means I will still love him but realize it is over and move forward. 2. Move to somewhere I have always wanted to live. Near the beach. 3. Take more grad classes. 4. Start and get halfway through a book I have always wanted to write. 5. Solve world hunger and bring peace to the world...hahahah sorry had to throw that one in!
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 To remember to take vitimans every morning & to try get better sleep at night.
XxBacktoBlackXx Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 This is my major New Years Resolution: To maintain NC with someone that I really need to remove from my life. I am hoping to start at least with 1 month and work from there. I have heard that it takes 20 days to break a habit. Well, I really want to break a bunch of habits, such as this person. I am also hoping to make a move sometime this year. One of my favorite goals is to play piano more, to the point that I can play it in a store while people shop. I've always wanted to do that!
Confused9 Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 1. Start working on loving myself and putting myself first. I have never been good to myself, why would I expect others to be? 2. Continue losing weight but eat. I have not been eating since this whole thing happened and I know that is NOT good. 3. MOVE ON. I really need to move on. He has...so should I. 4. Stop focusing on his happiness. It shouldn't matter if he is happy with OW. It should matter if I am happy. 5. Find someone to love. Maybe not in 08' as I am still really new in to this, but, eventually, I need to start dating. 6. Live for me...NO ONE else.
jerbear Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 1) Get into grad school 2) Forget NC, going LC 3) Start a venture while in school! 4) Take a real vacation 5) Find a cougar to throw around and pull from under me as part of Swing dancing! 6) Turn the cougar to a MILF late 2008 for 2009 delivery! :bunny: Ok, some of it won't happen but that is my list made in 2007 for 2008; so it may not count.
Precious K Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Hmmm.... my resolutions. 1. Understand that my ex and I are done for good. Truely get that ITS OVER! 2. No try to txt, e-mal, I'M, or call him. To forget his number, not to check his myspace. 3. Feelings and thoughts about him try to get over them as quick as possible. 4. Try to exercise and get out much much more. He's like an addiction. So I have to keep nc and try my best each day to mantain it. Plus funny thing is that he told his friend he is over me when the next day he was all over me trying to be with me... what a looser! Happy new year to everyone!
Jmina Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 Jmina's 2008 motto Open mind, open heart, success. To keep doing exactly what i've been doing. Living by my authentic self. 2007 was a huge year for me emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and even physically. I feel i have had a lot of time to get myself together, i am definetly already on a good path for myself. 2008 - i would like this year to be about moving forward in other areas - study, job, travel, fun, experiences, meeting people etc. So my new years 'aims' are to find the courses that i want to study. I will set more aims as the year goes on. I think it is irrational to set a whole list of things and then try to do them all. I'm going to continue making my life about me. 2008 and is going to be all about what i need, want, desire. Instead of how my ex might be feeling etc etc etc She IS in my past now. I still love her dearly, and i am allowed to love her, however i don't need to consider her anymore, or have her more than a passing thought. I am going to add a suggestion add a motto to your resolutions. Something that inspires you and something that will help with your resolutions! Jmina
randuff Posted December 31, 2007 Posted December 31, 2007 1. Don't let thoughts of her RUN/RUIN your life! 2. Get back to the gym and STAY. 3. Accept that what is, IS and try not to worry about things I CANNOT CONTROL! 4.Get a DATE! 5. Quit dipping snuff :/
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