whitedevil01 Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 (edited) Allrighty... let me give you a bit of "back story" So I met this awesome woman back in the end of October. We kinda dated for maybe a few weeks. She really rocked my world (a.k.a. freakin' awesome of a woman), and (reflectively) I rocked hers as well. However, it came to an abrupt stop when her internal conflict blew out of control, and decided that I am in fact too young for her <I'm 23 she's 32>, and because of this important factor, she decided no longer to see me. I was quite disappointed about her decision, but I got over it. She decided that we shouldn't be friends and we should ride our own horse into the sunset... so to speak. (now, current "dilemma")....Last night she sent me a text message thanking me for a song that I sent her... and that it was her favorite. But the thing is I didn't send her a song. I know that very well. But I didn't recognize her phone number or name... But soon, I saw the light and remembered her... ...along with all the feelings that I tried to discard (I guess quite unsuccessfully) came back... and I'm quite confused. I don't know what to do/say/think about the situation or her. Maybe I'm just reading too much into it, but it looked as if she was attempting to reestablish contact? ...and if she is, and she has either kept feelings for me or is attempting to reconnect... should I give her a second chance? Edited December 28, 2007 by whitedevil01
D-Lish Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 she sent you what we like to call an "oops" text. It's designed to re-establish contact, a means of testing the waters, without actually putting yourself out there to be rejected. It's a tactic. She knew who she was texting. I'd text back and say "hey, i never sent you a song, hope you are well" Only if you want to begin a dialogue again...
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