loveinlife Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 My ex and I broke up a long time ago, about 2 years, but we have maintained our contact with each other. recently she wanted to get back with me but i already found someone. Now that my relationship didn't work out with the new girl im trying to get back with my ex bc the feeling never went away. My ex is asking for time bc she is bitter as to what i did bc i went out with someone else and dissed her. She wants some time to think about it since her nursing exam is coming up and she wants to get her studying and family issues taken care of first. what should i do? this is a girl who dumped me two years ago, but still came back here and there to see me but never wanted me back.
fabulousgal Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 quit being her toy. she wanted to get back with you after SHE dumped you and is upset bc you were seeing someone else and did the right thing and didn't flake on your new girl bc you had made a commitment? and now, she is bitter? if she really loved you, she would work it out somehow someway. it doesn't sound like she is really doing that. lay it out for her, you want to work it out and will prove to her you are legit but she has to play too. otherwise, this is all a power trip.
Author loveinlife Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 quit being her toy. she wanted to get back with you after SHE dumped you and is upset bc you were seeing someone else and did the right thing and didn't flake on your new girl bc you had made a commitment? and now, she is bitter? if she really loved you, she would work it out somehow someway. it doesn't sound like she is really doing that. lay it out for her, you want to work it out and will prove to her you are legit but she has to play too. otherwise, this is all a power trip. thanks for the comment fab, i do want this to work out. i told her about it but she says she is still disappointed of how i didn't want to be with her when i was seeing the new girl. I told her i can wait, that if she is really looking for that commitment, i can give her an engagement ring. But it all comes down to the time that she will need to take care of her business. I respect her decision as this is the only way that she wants it done, so im giving her space and doing NC, unless she wants to talk or go hang out with me. Yesterday she came over my house and baked me some cup cakes. Then this morning she told me about how she needs time to think about it after her nursing exam. This so reminds me of the new girl when i gave her certified diamond ear rings and then the next morning she wants to be friends. geez, im dealing falling for these heart breakers.
Geishawhelk Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 It didn't work then? It won't work now.
Author loveinlife Posted December 28, 2007 Author Posted December 28, 2007 It didn't work then? It won't work now. yeah thats true. Im just wishfully thinking that it'll work out for the best between us.
Geishawhelk Posted December 28, 2007 Posted December 28, 2007 The more time and energy you waste on this, the more you neglect the delight and wonder of new potential. Appreciate the good, accept the bad - - And move on.
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