xXthickmissXx Posted December 27, 2007 Posted December 27, 2007 I was dating this guy for about a year and he lived with me. One day he went to jail and I found out that he got sentenced to ten months. For seven months we wrote, he even asked me to marry him. Then in an instant he said his ex came to see him and he got back old feelings. He stopped writing to me and I tried to move on, but I can't cause he lied to me, cheated on me and all kinds of other things and I stuck by him then he walks away. I'm talking to this really great guy who treats me wonderfully but I'm not physically attracted to him and I'm stuck on my last relationship. What should I do?
Geishawhelk Posted December 27, 2007 Posted December 27, 2007 You want a serious answer? Here it is... Stop seeing anyone. Period. Be on your own for a while. Go on a retreat, find a way to just isolate yourself for a while and to give yourself time to heal, to rediscover yourself, and determine what you want. No pressure, no family, no friends, nothing. Just try being on your own for a while. I think the company would be marvellous. You could learn so much about 'you', you didn't already know.....!
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