blindsidedagain Posted December 26, 2007 Posted December 26, 2007 (edited) D-day was 9 weeks ago, and the whole story is under my other thread. Anyway, I am moving toward leaving her and would like to do it as quickly as possible. However, we own the home we live in and are strapped financially otherwise. Also, I would have to find a new job upon leaving as I depend on her for transport to my current job. I have no family members that can take me (nor would I want to put that burden on them). If I wait until my house sells, it may take a year in the current market! I could not possibly stay under the same roof with her for that long. How do people split under these circumstances? We have no children by the way. Edited December 26, 2007 by blindsidedagain
bestadvisor Posted December 26, 2007 Posted December 26, 2007 I thought you were leaning on recovery and trying to move forward with her? Why all the sudden change? How is her reaction to your decision or is it her decision as well?
Author blindsidedagain Posted December 26, 2007 Author Posted December 26, 2007 Well, I am not 100% sure about anything I guess. She wants to work it out and it doing everything I could expect. One exception however is that she never will bring up the affair topic. She tries to be as pleasant as possible, and does not antagonize my anger. However, as time passes, the reality of the scar of this affair just seems to get deeper. I guess I have a problem with the fact that I had to discover it rather than her ending it.
bestadvisor Posted December 26, 2007 Posted December 26, 2007 How is her reaction to your wanting to end the marriage?
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