Myz_Heavenly Posted December 26, 2007 Posted December 26, 2007 How long do you guys/gals think is appropriate to wait before moving in together with a guy you're dating? We both have the intentions of having a serious no-games relationship... IMO, I'm feeling like 7-8 months is long enough. The reason why we are proposing moving in together is b/c he is relocating from another state to be with me and would have nowhere to stay while he started a new job...Just wanted opinions. Thanx!
Citizen Erased Posted December 26, 2007 Posted December 26, 2007 Well my bf and I had been together for about a year before we moved in. There were a few circumstances leading up to it, but in the end it was the right decision. If it works for you as a couple, then everyone else's opinion is worth zilch
Author Myz_Heavenly Posted December 26, 2007 Author Posted December 26, 2007 Thanks so much!!! That means a lot!
allina Posted December 26, 2007 Posted December 26, 2007 I moved in with my bf about 10 months ago, at the time of the move we were dating for 7 months. He is the first (and last) man I have ever lived with, and though I know 7 months is very quick it was a good decision for us. We didn't move in together for any reason besides wanting to live together and I couldn't be happier.
Lost Student Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 I don't think that there is a specific rule for moving in together. It varies from coupe to couple. But some comments to keep in mind: 1) Sometimes you don't truly know a person until you live with them - and this can be either in the positive or negative sense. Be prepared, and know that living together is different from dating. 2) Know your expectations for commitment. Living together can create the need for greater commitment (engagement/marriage). If the two of you are not on the same level this can lead to problems and resentment.
ShoeGirl Posted December 30, 2007 Posted December 30, 2007 I haven't ever lived with a boyfriend but for what it's worth my best friend moved in with her boyfriend after 4 months, bought a house with him after 14 months and they are now engaged (been together for 2 years now) Like DC said if it works for both of you then no one else's opinion matters.
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