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asilisa Established Member

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Hello Everyone!

 

Hope we are all having the happiest holiday that we can. I know Christmas Eve was not very good for me but Christmas is much better. Well since my ex broke up with me 2 months ago we were talking for alittle and I told him I no longer wanted to speak to him about a week and a half ago.

 

He has sent me stupid :) or :( faces a few times but nothing more. Last night he sent me a text telling me "Well I got you something, give it to you, don't give it to you, or put it under your wiper!" He seriously enjoys messing with my head. Why did he get me something? First off he broke up with me, second off I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore. (Trust me he didn't buy it before I told him no more talking; my ex used to go out christmas eve to do his shopping.) Obviously I still have feelings for him but I knew I needed to move on from him. Did anyone else's ex get them something? Well, Thanks everyone

 

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loveinlife Established Member

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Yep i got something from my ex ex, who im kinda talking to right now, but she is unsure to give us another chance since she broke up with me then i dissed her for my current ex. Both ex gave me something, but what i do wish for christmas is to spend time with my ex ex. (=I)

GlamourBabe Established Member

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Yep, my ex got me something too. I got him a present as well. xx

Confused81 New Member

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I think that his playing around a little messng with ur minds. me and my ex broke up 4 years ago she was my 1st love and always will be. If anything i will get her a gift next christmas as my final present, she always said to me during our relationship that i would never fight for her in fact i have been fighting for her for the last 4 years and its getting to a point. I know it might not be the answer u need but its just to let u know how i guy would feel for a girl after the break up

AnotherGirl Member

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I got him something months ago...still have it, not sure what to do with it. He...so far...did not get me anything.

jessbaby24 Member

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Yea i got a gift from my ex..it was a text from him saying "merry christmas" which was wierd since we got in a really bad argument a few days ago.

niceguy27 Established Member

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I didnt get my ex anything or even wish her a merry christmas. Of course since I normally initiate things like that I wanted to wait and see if for once she would...nope. Not a word from her on Christmas.

 

Oh well. You think you know someone when youre with them but when you split its like a completely different game.

Trialbyfire Established Member

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Yes, he tried to leave it with my parents but they wouldn't accept it on my behalf. They suggested he return it...

Saxis Established Member

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TBF.... :lmao:

 

I didn't get my X anything, and I'm not going to. I hope she returns the favor. The only thing I want is signed divorce papers! :D

Trialbyfire Established Member

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Never, never take on my parents. They're a serious force to be reckoned with. I sit at their knee in awe. :laugh:

Saxis Established Member

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Never, never take on my parents. They're a serious force to be reckoned with. I sit at their knee in awe. :laugh:

 

My pops is too trusting, and he still talks to my X. My mom has had her in tears a few times though, and she can be pretty brutal... in a not-so-subtle way! My X is even more scared of her now, after all that's happened. :D Sometimes I can't believe some of the stuff she says!

johan Established Member

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For the third year straight, my ex gave me the gift of peace and quiet and absolutely no stress. I should write her and thank her.

Trialbyfire Established Member

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My pops is too trusting, and he still talks to my X. My mom has had her in tears a few times though, and she can be pretty brutal... in a not-so-subtle way! My X is even more scared of her now, after all that's happened. :D Sometimes I can't believe some of the stuff she says!

Mothers are the best and the worst. Talk about protecting their chicks. Don't cha' just love them? :laugh:

 

My dad is worse than my mom, when it comes to sheltering family, especially his little baby (yes, that would be me, :p). Both parents are pretty good with knifework but my dad never stops stropping his knife, if he feels that anyone has hurt his loved ones. Neither parent will stoop to behind the back behaviour. They prefer to be...upfront...

Crestfallen_KH Established Member

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Nope, nothing thank goodness. I didn't get him anything either. I figured when I ignored his birthday two weeks ago that he'd get the hint. Plus, he's actually respecting the fact that I told him I didn't want to hear from him again.

 

I'm 30 days no contact now and it's just getting easier. Christmas was pretty hard, but I feel a weight lifted now that it's passed. Can't wait for 2008!

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I got a text from him saying " merry christmas. hope you and your family have an awesome christmas". Surprising that he actually texted me after two weeks of no contact whatsoever.

But i guess it was a good surprise.

I just bought him a card and sent it to him in the mail, and in it i said, "I love you. Merry Christmas."

But hes gotten me stuff. For our one month he wrote me the sweetest longest love letter and he gave me a stuffed animal. So cliche. The stuffed animal. But i still love it.

Friends have told me to hide the letter and stuffed animal somewhere where i dont look.In an old suitcase or something so its off my mind. But thats hardly the case. Its all i can think of. Especially the love letter. Considering all the stuff he said in there. My ex is the kind of man who means EVERYTHING he says. Thats why i cant believe its over with us.

Its been two months since our breakup as well.

It gets harder everyday but Im so glad i have great family and friends by my side.

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Yes... it was a gift card. I say why not? Always good to have more "friends."

 

In regards to parents... they are great sometimes and sometimes just clueless! One of my parents accepted the gift because she liked the girl and want us to chat. argh... moms!!!! I love my mom but argh! :lmao::laugh:

sumdude Established Member

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She gave me absolute silence... which I sure as he** NEVER got from her when we were together..:lmao:

Precious K Member

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well he said he "bought" me an engagement ring. I don't really believe him...

BlueEyedSarah

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Did anyone else's ex get them something?

My ex added me on MSN on Christmas Eve :rolleyes:

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