paddy1971 Posted December 25, 2007 Posted December 25, 2007 Merry Christmas everyone! Need a bit of advice - I've been on two dates with a girl recently and we seem to get on well. I called her on Saturday to arrange a date for between Christmas and New Year but she sounded awful and was suffering with flu. I sent her a text yesterday (Monday) asking if she was feeling better and she said that she felt a bit better but hadn't done anything for the last few days. What should I do next? I thought I could send her a text on Thursday to say I hoped she was feeling better and ask how her christmas had gone, or I thought that I could give her a call on Friday to see how she was doing. The reason I am asking for advice is that I don't want her to feel that I am being pushy. I do like her a lot and we seem to have quite a bit in common. I'd like to see her again but obviously when she is feeling better, and don't want her to feel under pressure? Am I worrying unnecessarily? So, what should do I do?
Krytie TV Posted December 25, 2007 Posted December 25, 2007 I would always recommend calling over texting. Why not give her a call on Wednesday and ask her to do something (have and idea and a day already in mind) if she's feeling better and ask about her holiday. If she is still ill, tell her to give you a call when she feels better so you two can get together. At that point you've tried twice and you just need to sit back and see what happens. You've done your part by that point.
Author paddy1971 Posted December 26, 2007 Author Posted December 26, 2007 Thanks for the advice Krytie TV. I think the reason I am so nervous and unsure about what to do is that i really like her and don't want to do anything to screw things up. In a past life (when I wasn't very well over a long period) I made a few mistakes whilst dating and created unnecessary pressure.
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