Sw3etdev1L Posted December 25, 2007 Posted December 25, 2007 I called my ex boyfriend one day to say hello, he was a bit cold....I mean we ended up things in good terms. Then I called him again, one month later to go out for a coffee and talk things out..I left a message on the cellphone the same day, twice and he did not get back on me....two months later I called to see how he was, and just left him a message. This time I knew he was not going to answer. i lost my virginity to him, he had premature ejaculation..I had just so many ideas coming up my mind I wanted to clear things out. why he acted cold on me, why he preferred to go drinking alcohol being 29 instead of wanting to go have sex with me. things like that......but he never wants to answer the phone so I sent him a huge e mail saying everything I felt and stuff.. I don't know if he will read it...I treated him nicely all the time, I don't get why he acts this way with me. one day I danced at a club and the day later he erased be from facebook after looking at me with another man, we were not even kissing or anything...and he is 29!!!..well, so what do you think about this? and why won't he answer my phone calls, why does he evade me??...I never treated him bad and don't feel I deserve this.
LakesideDream Posted December 25, 2007 Posted December 25, 2007 I think you are very you, probably very attractive and very used to getting whatever you want. Your ex has moved on sweetie. He doesen't want to be a part of your life. Take the best of what you had together and do your best to forget the rest. Someday, things may change, right now his message is pretty clear. He's done with this part of your relationship.
Chrome Barracuda Posted December 25, 2007 Posted December 25, 2007 Wow, you said he had ejaculation problems and whatnot. That right there is painful for a man. A man's greatest or second best gift to himself is the need to feel powerful in bed. Ejaculation problems could have frustrated him and gave him alot of pain. He's probably drinking to numb it. Just dont take things personally.He;s probably going through alot right now, he wants to deal with things on his own. Just give him space and time. and let him heal on his own. He'll come around sooner or not on his own. you'll see. Good luck to you.
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