sara879 Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 I am new to this forum, so here goes: I met this guy 1.5 years ago and he liked me for a long time and finally I started liking him and things progressed. 5 or 6 months ago, we wanted to get married but things got really complicated with his family and I couldn't agree with what he and his family wanted, so even though, I really didn't want to, I said no and had to call everything off. We tried remaining friends, but he seemed bitter, but nonetheless, we still talked pretty regularly. I dont know..I guess after 2-3 months, I regretted my decision and asked him back and asked to work it out. I cried everyday almost after breaking up with him..I just missed him too much, I suppose. I agreed to do what had initially broken us up too. He said he needed time and had to think about it, all the while we still talked pretty regularly. Finally, like a month ago, he tells me that he and his family have decided that he needs to focus on his career/life etc etc and basically says no. He seems sort of like a mama's boy, so im not sure if he really said no himself or his mom convinced him to say no. Regardless, that was a month ago, and I haven't talked to him since he said no to me. I guess I am just too angry and hurt. But, I still cant get over him. I miss him terribly....so much so that i cant even look at other potential guys. I've been trying to get over him for months, but I still can't. I've tried everything..I hang out with my friends, keep busy, but i still think about him constantly. It doesn't help that I have to see him everyday, but I try to avoid him as much as possible. But I can't help thinking about him. I've been trying to move on for months, but I just can't. Sometimes, I get the hint that he wanted to or maybe still wants to work it out, but his mom really won't let him, but maybe I'm delusional. What can i do? Is it possible for us to ever get back together? I am not sure I can ever move on. Please help.
Just_me43 Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 I know you said your angry and hurt, but i think at least to give you peace of mind to say that you have tried try and get in touch with him and ask to speak to him away from his mum and family. Where you can ask him questions that he obviously must answer for himself and from his heart. You may get a better understanding of how he feels etc and it will give you the chance to tell him exactly how you feel too. Good Luck x
sderenzi Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 Do not bother him it will feel akward and strange. Instead go out and get drunk at some bar, then let a guy take you home and have some fun. When this is done you'll forget all about him and feel much better.
Author sara879 Posted December 25, 2007 Author Posted December 25, 2007 I suppose it doesn't matter anymore anyways, I just found out that he's engaged now. I missed my chance when I had it..
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