enough crying 626 Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 okay listen... im goin thru it this man done broke my windows,gave me black eyes i went to one shelter after anoher.I mean come on i just went thru so much it done it over with he's like enough is enough i understand that but i wanted to us to see a theapist i mean we was suppose to get married i thought we was bigger than this.now here i am all alone letting life pass me by,he's living his life an not me.i love him he's all i know an it hurts for me to hear someone else say i love you. I mean had me sit an wait till he got his self toghther then kicked me to the curb me. I known him since i was 23 im now 30 he's 40 ...why do that to me?I put up with so much of his bullcrap it hurts so bad .Im not focused not one bit,the pain that is in my heart i lost my best friend my family knows it ...how can you cure a broken heart he knows me inside an out....all i do is think about him after all the wrong him an i done he said he would never leave me this love thing hurts i tryed to see other people an all all i do is talk about his ass!what am i doin wrong ?i just dont know why we cant reconcile but i think its to late i dont know ...................
GlamourBabe Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 okay listen... im goin thru it this man done broke my windows,gave me black eyes i went to one shelter after anoher. First of all I would like to say any man that could cause you any pain be it physical and emotional is without EXCUSE not good for YOU. I mean come on i just went thru so much it done it over with he's like enough is enough i understand that but i wanted to us to see a theapist i mean we was suppose to get married This scared me, do you really want to get married to someone who will make you feel scared and cause you pain. You need separate counselling, working on yourselves but since your the poster. You need to concentrate on yourself and get your self esteem , confidence and not to mention your self worth. Once that is done maybe and maybe you could consider reconcilling with this man but by that time you SHOULD NOT want too! i thought we was bigger than this.now here i am all alone letting life pass me by,he's living his life an not me.i love him he's all i know an it hurts for me to hear someone else say i love you. I mean had me sit an wait till he got his self toghther then kicked me to the curb me. Sometimes when bad things happen to us, we put all the blame on the other person. This is not right, YOU allowed him to treat YOU this way now you probably didnt do this intentionally but through your lack of self worth this has occured I known him since i was 23 im now 30 he's 40 ...why do that to me?I put up with so much of his bullcrap it hurts so bad .Im not focused not one bit,the pain that is in my heart i lost my best friend my family knows it ...how can you cure a broken heart he knows me inside an out.... I am going through a break up myself, and my EX knows me preety much inside and out nearly everyone who is suffering a break up at the moment know that there Ex knows them inside and out. Yet they still chose to leave YOU feeling heartbroken. Think about that for a second. Why let this man have free accomodation in your heart! It is going to hurt, and you are going to feel pain but once you start getting your self worth back you wont even want this tryant of a man! I would pity any woman that has to come into the pleasure of his company. ugh. all i do is think about him after all the wrong him an i done You need to STOP right now about YOU and him, its just You now. he said he would never leave me this love thing hurts Any man that would promise to not leave you needs to make sure he signs a law abiding contract , if not its worthless! i tryed to see other people an all all i do is talk about his ass! Dont look to other men to fill this nagging void they will sense your vulnerable and pounce on it like a lion in the night! STAY AWAY FROM MEN!. You need to concentrate on yourself you have been in an abusive relationship. I was like you before I had to have someone in life, had to had to had to had to. ( it was making me ill! Its a coping mechanism for emptiness UNDERSTAND THIS) you need to sort yourself out, what are your hobbies? Friends? Career? This is where you will find happiness. Happiness attracts happiness what am i doin wrong ?i just dont know why we cant reconcile but i think its to late i dont know Your looking for an abuser to give you self worth thats where your going wrong and its sad, but I identify with you I have been there on countless occasions and I am only 21. But I have got it, finally! You need to do the same. If you listen to my words and take them on board you should not go wrong. ................... I hope this helps in the meantime, keep updating us Glamour Babe x
frd150 Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 You see heres what really gets me. Why are you waisting your time with this man. It seems to always be this way. The abused idealises the abuser. Screw this douche,pick yourself up ,better yourself and find a new man who will love you and not abuse you. You deserve better. There is absolutly no justification for abuse...period.
Recommended Posts