FeuerMaid Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 Alrighty, I'll be the first to say that my boyfriend is awesome in so many ways. I know that he loves me and that he would never cheat on me. I'm slightly confused though as to the sudden decline in his libido that I've noticed and he's also seeming to be in a sort of apathetic mood quite often. I did the obvious solution first and asked him if there was a problem that we could work on together. He told me that he was just feeling stressed out with school and all and that stress tends to affect him like that. Now don't get me wrong, I realize that there are times when you're just not in the mood, but when I hear that almost every time I playfully suggest something or even blatenly say what's on my mind, it makes me wonder if there is an issue that needs to be addressed. Not that I don't trust his ability to figure out what's going on in his head, I'm just wondering if he's holding back some concerns about our relationship and that's affecting him as well. questions? comments? Thanks!
D-Lish Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 Depression is often associated with a loss of libido. If it is sress triggered, it will pass. It it isn't- you will begin to notice more signs. Apathetic is a red flad for depression- as is loss of excitement for things formally considered a source of fun... of course sadness and rage are also signs. Keep an eye on him- if it doesn't pass- try and get him to see his doc. In the meantime, keep being supportive and understanding. ;-)
Legend Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 Definitely sounds like it has to do with depression. Even cheating guys can get it up...
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