brothermartin Posted December 23, 2007 Posted December 23, 2007 Last night a female friend of mine gave me some advice. She told me I should make a list of all the things that I want in a woman. That way, I will be more likely to attract or be attracted to this type of woman. I told her I don't see the point of doing this because it sounds like something that might get me into a relationship, and I don't want that now. She assured me that that's not the point of it. The point is to know what I want so as not to waste time with any women that don't meet my needs. I'm not looking for a relationship, in fact I'm avoiding the idea of commitment. So what would be the point of listing down the kind of woman I want if NOT to pursue a relationship? What do you guys think? Should I bother with this, or just stick with B&E's for now?
melodymatters Posted December 23, 2007 Posted December 23, 2007 yeah, don't make a list of all my wonderful attributes, if your just gonna turn around and break my heart !
Author brothermartin Posted December 23, 2007 Author Posted December 23, 2007 yeah, don't make a list of all my wonderful attributes, if your just gonna turn around and break my heart ! I won't let a woman get close enough to me now for me to break her heart. Besides, some pretty wonderful women have broken my heart, so nobody's perfect.
EYECANDY000 Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 Sure, even if your not seeking a relationship right now, i think its a great excecise to do. But even if your not looking for a relationship, it seems thats when you meet a great person.. I do five year plans with my relationships, and my personal life all the time.
Legend Posted December 24, 2007 Posted December 24, 2007 5 year plans sound like a good idea...thanks... I think the list is an excellent idea. It'll give you an visual idea of what it is you're really looking for. Nothing beats putting thoughts out on paper.
Author brothermartin Posted December 24, 2007 Author Posted December 24, 2007 5 year plans sound like a good idea...thanks... I think the list is an excellent idea. It'll give you an visual idea of what it is you're really looking for. Nothing beats putting thoughts out on paper. Thats just it. I'm not LOOKING for anything right now. Except maybe an occasional scandal. Visually I like a lot of different types of women, and as far as personality go's, I like what most people like. Sense of humor, sense of ethics, career goals, etc. I just don't see the point of making a list if I'm not looking for Ms. Right.
compassion42 Posted December 25, 2007 Posted December 25, 2007 Writing a list is a great idea but if you're not really into that then don't do it-it sounds like you already know what you want. Keep in mind though-it's when we're not looking that we often end up meeting our mate.
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