monkey5 Posted December 23, 2007 Posted December 23, 2007 About a year and a half ago, I moved with my parents to a different state. Since then, I have completed 2 years of college...and I have yet to make permanent friends. I will meet some people that seem really cool, but when I ask them if they want to do something, it feels like they come up with an excuse not to...or, they will make plans with others right in front of me & leave me out. I am a very outspoken and confident girl. I have a silly sense of humor. I don't know what I did wrong to make these people avoid me. Even at work, I talk to everyone, but when there is a party or any plans made I'm left out of the loop once again. (even when doing something was my idea.) Does anyone have any advice? I could really use some right now.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted December 23, 2007 Posted December 23, 2007 Just sounds like your trying way to hard with the same people over and over again. I'de move on not every one makes friends at work it can be a very clickish kinda place some times. If there doing it right in front of your face and useing your ideas on top of that. Then there trying to send you a message even if its in an indirect way. No they won't change any time soon and you def don't fit in what ever click these people have going. My suggestion find people more like yourself that you can click with. And spend your time trying to forge friendships with them.
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