loveinlife Posted December 21, 2007 Posted December 21, 2007 We broke up about 2 weeks ago and i asked for her to forgive me today for what i did, which was testing her which she thought i was playing mind games, so she felt unappreciated. Now that she forgave me, my real question is that would she still like to have a second try with me.. i don't want to give her any pressure.. im just wondering if this subject of second try will be brought up later.. she is a firm believer of second chances. But at the moment im still not sure if she will do that with me.. wish me luck. please give any advices that you find to have any help in my situation. thanks =)
ElvenPriestess Posted December 21, 2007 Posted December 21, 2007 We broke up about 2 weeks ago and i asked for her to forgive me today for what i did, which was testing her which she thought i was playing mind games, so she felt unappreciated. Now that she forgave me, my real question is that would she still like to have a second try with me.. i don't want to give her any pressure.. im just wondering if this subject of second try will be brought up later.. she is a firm believer of second chances. But at the moment im still not sure if she will do that with me.. wish me luck. please give any advices that you find to have any help in my situation. thanks =) Well she's been hurt, and is probably defensive for her heat, keeping it closed to not be hurt again. I think if you just give her some time, keep talking to her, as a friend, then that's a good start. And if things go well with that, she'll see you respected things and then you can bring it up. Something along the lines of "I know what I did was wrong, but I really enjoy being with you and I love your company, etc. Is there any way you think we could work things out and get there again?" As you can see there is nothing offensive or aggressive, and you're more asking an opinion of the situation rather than making her give you an answer right then and there. Hope this helps, best of luck.
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