Phoenix11 Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Ugh....I caved and sent this guy I've been talking to for 2 months a pic.....actually 2 pics. We talked for hours yesterday....like 3 hours...we made tenative plans for this weekend. Well it's been a few ours since I sent the pics and no response yet. Yikes....maybe my plans for the weekend are off:confused: I am so confused over my feelings for this guy....he is not attractive, yet I want his approval, and I can see myself getting busy with him....oops did I just say that. Oh well...a non response is a response of sorts:o
melodymatters Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 So, you did it ! Don't sweat it yet, it's only been a few hours, not days. Either way, now you've got the ball rolling again, so it will work out one way or another and no more need to stress. good luck !
shockandawed Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Phx, You definitely did the right thing. It sounds like you guys have some nice chemistry going on and I doubt a honest pic is going to change that. If I clicked with a girl as much as he apparently does with you, she would have to be extremely grotesque for me to run off of a picture. Relax, I know very well how the anticipation of his response is driving you crazy, but it has been only hours. Please keep us posted.
lindya Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 If I clicked with a girl as much as he apparently does with you, she would have to be extremely grotesque for me to run off of a picture. I'm sure Phoenix will treasure those comforting words if he doesn't respond!
shockandawed Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 I'm sure Phoenix will treasure those comforting words if he doesn't respond! I can see where that may not sound well, but I hope Phoenix understands my point. I just want her to relax and I feel comfortable he will be fine. He has put a lot of time and energy into getting to this point. Finally seeing what she looks like shouldn't change that.
LoveLace Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 I'd say your confusion would resolve once you met him in person, attraction-wise and chemistry-wise. I've been in that exact sitch, from both sides. The suspense of sending your pic and you know they won't bother to respond usually unless they like it...and the feeling guilt after talking to a guy you like and learning he doesn't look anything like you'd hoped... I've lost many dates after sending my pic, sucky feeling but eventually there's always some who does like it. So if the guy doesn't respond, all you can do is find another interesting person to start chatting with. On the other hand, think optimistic...
Author Phoenix11 Posted December 20, 2007 Author Posted December 20, 2007 :D Ok...update...just got an IM...playing it coy...not mentioning the pic at all...then he says...what were you worried about....you are cute....even though the pic was sort of "mug shot like"....nice...real nice. Anyway...he sent me another pic of himself...which I like very much...striking a pose....hot... I told him it was a really nice pic and it would be a good one to post on his profile....(me attempting to be aloof). He said " i think i want to see how you and i work before any kind of updating if at all..." Yippie Still chatting now...will fill you guys in later.....thank you for all of your support:laugh:
Art_Critic Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Someone's gonna get laid......Someone's gonna get laid......Someone's gonna get laid......
D-Lish Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 :D Ok...update...just got an IM...playing it coy...not mentioning the pic at all...then he says...what were you worried about....you are cute....even though the pic was sort of "mug shot like"....nice...real nice. Anyway...he sent me another pic of himself...which I like very much...striking a pose....hot... I told him it was a really nice pic and it would be a good one to post on his profile....(me attempting to be aloof). He said " i think i want to see how you and i work before any kind of updating if at all..." Yippie Still chatting now...will fill you guys in later.....thank you for all of your support:laugh: That's great news!!! I am so happy for you. ;-)
a4a Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Someone's gonna get laid......Someone's gonna get laid......Someone's gonna get laid...... OMG that was exactly my response...... and........... You must wear matching panties and bra.... just in case.
Author Phoenix11 Posted December 20, 2007 Author Posted December 20, 2007 Someone's gonna get laid......Someone's gonna get laid......Someone's gonna get laid...... Too Funny...yet I hope so....hehehe I figured out my attraction to him...he's a brainyack....smart is sexy
Phateless Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 :D Ok...update...just got an IM...playing it coy...not mentioning the pic at all...then he says...what were you worried about....you are cute....even though the pic was sort of "mug shot like"....nice...real nice. Anyway...he sent me another pic of himself...which I like very much...striking a pose....hot... I told him it was a really nice pic and it would be a good one to post on his profile....(me attempting to be aloof). He said " i think i want to see how you and i work before any kind of updating if at all..." Yippie Still chatting now...will fill you guys in later.....thank you for all of your support:laugh: slow clapping... <HUG> i'm happy for you girlie! i'm glad everything is working out.
spookie Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 I'm glad you decided to send him a pic (I didn't comment on your previous thread but was one of the people who defintiely thought it was weird that you were so adament about not wanting to send him one). And I'm very happy that things are working out! Keep us updated.
LoveLace Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 I just oppened a bottle of champagne Ah yes please pour me a glass! Reason to celebrate!
Legend Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Could go for some bubbly right now.... work is so boring
Author Phoenix11 Posted December 20, 2007 Author Posted December 20, 2007 I'm glad you decided to send him a pic (I didn't comment on your previous thread but was one of the people who defintiely thought it was weird that you were so adament about not wanting to send him one). And I'm very happy that things are working out! Keep us updated. Thank you. Yeah...that thread got alittle outrageous. I'm sure I said somewhere in there that I would send a pic, but there was too much brew-ha-ha going on and it went un-noticed.
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