dinney123 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 7 years is a long time to pretend to be someone, to pretend to care, to pretend to love. Distance is tough but if the relationship has a strong base in friendship you belive anything can survive. Dealing with a break-up after 7 years is hard enough - you grow up knowing a person and knowing you willbe together for therest of your life. Its harder when youre engaged at the end right before you break up. What makes it worse is finding out your boyfriend was cheating on you for atleast 4 of those years with one girl and then there were several other random girls. How am i supposed to deal with that? I dont know what to feel - I hate him but i still care and want to know why - i want to be friends with the idea of him i have in my mind and even tough i know hes not realy who i thought he was i still cant get over it. Then there is the other girl -- i hate her and i cant stand the though of him being with her - but he cheated on her too and never told her about me -- so she is the parallel of me -- i cant hate her, i want to. Im alone in a new place and hes my only connection to anything....I can do this on my own but i dont think i have the courage or the energy anymore. Its been 6 months since we broke up - i thoiught i was over him and could deal with being friend but just finding out about these girls has brought it ll back....how do i cope?
ElvenPriestess Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Wow. I'm very sorry that all happened. You care because you are a good person and you're human. Believe it or not, this too shall pass. At least you got out now. He's the one who loses here, not you.
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