liv2tell Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 someone i dated for a year (living together, very serious), started texting me out of the blue telling me how much he misses me etc. this has been going on for 3 days. i had deep feelings for him but was a bit cautious when he started expressing his feelings over texts - that after 2.5 years he still thinks about me, etc. i went to see him (briefly, for an hour), and he was trying to get with me (sexually), but i said let's take things a bit slower... that night he texted me again saying "i still feel the same way about us" and then disappeared. i tried texting him smiley faces (not stalker like), may be 2 or 3 and nothing in response. what am i to think - am so confused, it's killing me... thanks for you advice everyone and happy holidays!
jerbear Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Your ex wanted a booty call and didn't get it. It is quite possible your ex would have disappeared after the booty call anyway; just he'll be back for more booty.
ElvenPriestess Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I dated a guy for 2 years and he texted me out of the blue like yours did, and he DID just want a booty call. I didn't let him have it, and then he decided he didn't want to even be friends. This guy is just lonely. The fact that after 2.5 years he'd just hit on you like that doesn't show any respect towards you.
Author liv2tell Posted December 19, 2007 Author Posted December 19, 2007 thanks for your opinions. he did send me a b-day email for my b-day and i haven't responded to him. why would he then say" i've missed you, thought about you, etc" if he just wanted a booty call. he could've just said - i want you or something. he's 39 years old, we are not teenagers. we almost got engaged when we were together so i really wouldn't think he'd be playing these games. perhaps i am giving this too much credence. my point simply is that he didnt have to go through all that elaborate texting to get laid (on top of that, he has no problems getting laid to begin with)... he didn't have to say - we used to be best friends, etc. and i did ask him via text - is that all you want (i e - sex), to which he responded - no, but it would be a good place to start... he was also extremely nervous when i saw him... i don't know what that means exactly.. i guess i should just let it go.
ElvenPriestess Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I suppose he could be genuine, and maybe he feels he made a mistake giving you up and wants another chance with you? But still the method of such a fast sexual attempt wasn't cool on his part.
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