Saffylizzy Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Hi all! Hoping someone could point me in the right direction. My guy broke up with me after about 3 months. He used to be besotted with me, then just went cold. Were both quite jealous and had only one argument the entire time about some girls he texted.It was not a nasty argument at all. I checked his phone, but only after he checked mine. He broke up that Monday after and desperately insisted that we stay friends, coz he cares about me and doesnt want to lose someone like me from his life. He was very adament about this. He said his house is still my house and I can come and go anytime I like. He just doesnt want a relationship right now. We had a discussion about dating and my point is just that dating is sorting through till you find someone you want to marry. He said he doesnt think he'll get married and when he goes back to his country in a year or so, he doesnt want me to be hurt when he leaves. I just said okay after trying to find out the real reason for the break-up for a while and left without shedding a tear. I organized a gorgous puppy for him while we were together and I love this puppy so much, I went to visit in the day when I was sure he wasnt at his house and strangely he pitched up from nowhere and was very shy. We talked and I tried my best to be bubbly and happy, kept it to 5 min and said I have to go. On the way out he touched my bum and I laughed and told him I'll have to smack him if he does it again. He looked quite squished by this. From there he did a lot of effort to invite me out with him and friends and started hitting on me again. After I made him run after me for a while it did happen on a few occasions. So I dont get it. Why the hell break up with someone you still like a lot and still find so attractive?? So I managed to get his attention again, what now? Whats the next step to getting him back? Do I dissapear for a while? We live in an extemely small town so no way to avoid him unless I dont leave my house.
JustinWolf Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Hmm. You did quite well up to now, you've even got his attention, all you gotta do is keep doing wtv it is you're doing because it seems to be working just fine. If you like him, let him come to you and be happy. There's no real "trick" to it. Good luck
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