ross37 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 So me and my gf have been dating almost a year, we are very close and we spend pretty much all of our time together except when we have class or i'm at work. Its x-mas break for our university and we are off for an entire month, i am with my parents and she is with hers, we live about 3 hours from each other. We've only been apart for 3-4 days and i'm going to see her on Friday, but everytime i talk to her on the phone, shes mad at me that i didnt come home with her and she wants me to come down right now. I dont know if shes serious in being mad at me or not, but it seems like it over the phone. I never see my family and i just want to see them for a little while before i see her, and its only a week. Why do you think shes like this? Does she just miss me alot or what?
ElvenPriestess Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Of course she's missing you right now, but she's not handling it well at all. She should understand you visiting family, and she'll see you soon as it is. And TELLING you to come down now, comes across as controlling. Not a very nice way to talk to you. She's being selfish, if she REALLY wants to see you, then she can come to where you're at. That's my take on it.
Legend Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 She definitely misses you, and really wants to see you. She's just going about it immaturely. Suggest that she drive down to see you and then you'll drive up to see her.
Author ross37 Posted December 19, 2007 Author Posted December 19, 2007 yeah unfourtuntly, when i ask her to come see me, she says "no" and when i ask why...she just says because she doesnt want to drive. It sounds like to me that i might have a spoiled princess on my hands..
EYECANDY000 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Sounds like shes not use to you guys being apart as well. and she just misses you being around her.
Legend Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 yeah unfourtuntly, when i ask her to come see me, she says "no" and when i ask why...she just says because she doesnt want to drive. It sounds like to me that i might have a spoiled princess on my hands.. spoiled princess alert... it's gotta be a give and take, not a give and get nothing back relationship, or it won't work.
mortensorchid Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Sounds like she has some seperation anxiety. But, you are with your family now, as is she, and she should understand that you need alone time with them. She sounds insecure. Can she stand on her own two feet without you or without a man in her life? She's showing another side of herself now. I think you should think about his relationship, I don't know if she's a spoiled princess like others have said, but she is demanding that you do more for her than she for you.
Racquel Colette Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Honestly I don't think she is really that into you. Sorry, but I call it as I see it. Move on.
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