Zapbasket Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Well, since I'll never give in to a fling if past behavior is any predictor, and I'm not ready to be in a relationship again after the breakup of a relationship with a person who meant a great deal to me, I figure I nevertheless shouldn't have to be nun-like until I'm lucky enough to find someone I can truly love--which is the only way I can really unleash my inner sex vixen. So...I want to design a program of study for myself. I want to learn how to be better at sex, without actually having sex. This seemingly points me down the route of porn. I've never watched porn. I mean, once I checked out some free online porn sites but they weren't very creative or good...and those sites totally binded with cookies or something on my computer as they messed with my Google so that I'd innocently click on a link in a search and every one would be a porn link in disguise, that kind of thing. So where can I find good porn? Something that shows more than just...pardon me...banging and actually might teach me something? I don't want to have to go to a video store for it. Any recommendations? While I'm at it, any good books out there? The goal: to have, in my next sexual encounter which will count bigtime because it will be with someone I'm really into, a few new tricks. Only I'll know they're "new" and not part of the usual GreenCove sex style. (Yes, I'm kind-of making fun of myself right now.... At the same time, I'm totally serious.) I want to have grown sexually between the last time I had sex (ONE YEAR AGO!!!) and the next time (perhaps over one year from now? ). Any advice or recommendations are welcome--thanks
Krytie TV Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Are you male or female. Well, either way, there's really nothing to be learned from porn. In fact, it's that line of thinking that makes so many supposedly sexually knowledgeable people look like fools in bed. Avoid porn. Try the Kama Sutra. There are many versions. Find one that is relatively modern and has ample illustrations.
underpants Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Oh go to the porn shop. It is soooo much fun. Honestly, the people there don't care at all about you being there. They are there. I love to go. Just pretend you are shopping for a bachelorette party or something. Most have a book section with all kinds of manuals. Along with a lot of other wacky and insane stuff. Everyone should visit a porn shop in their lifetime.
ElvenPriestess Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Go for tantric and kama sutra as was already mentioned by KT. And adult stores are a lot of fun. I used to go in there with friends. You don't have to get porn, there's a lot of other things in there. Just check it out.
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