Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I once dated a guy who was a rodeo guy and used to ride broncos. I guess he got thrown and the bronco stepped right on his penis. Nearly ripped it right off, as he told me it was hanging by a thread. He had a very good surgeon, as he was able to sew it back on and he still had full use and sensation, but yeah - it had a little Lorena Bobbitt look to it.
Dynamo Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Perhaps it's just the age-old Male insecurity speaking in me, but I've always wondered a woman's perspective on this; what do you gals typically deem 'small'? Yes, I have played sports and such, but despite popular belief guys don't compare sizes in the locker rooms or anything silly like that.. I don't doubt that different women have different tastes (just like men do for breast sizes, butt sizes, etc etc). I'm about 7 and a half, I've always thought of myself pretty averaged size. Not too big, not too small. Well if that wasn't an awkward post to type out, I dunno what is Still though I've been curious about this for a long time.
Cobra_X30 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I've always figured it depends on the size of the woman your with.
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Perhaps it's just the age-old Male insecurity speaking in me, but I've always wondered a woman's perspective on this; what do you gals typically deem 'small'? Yes, I have played sports and such, but despite popular belief guys don't compare sizes in the locker rooms or anything silly like that.. I don't doubt that different women have different tastes (just like men do for breast sizes, butt sizes, etc etc). I'm about 7 and a half, I've always thought of myself pretty averaged size. Not too big, not too small. Well if that wasn't an awkward post to type out, I dunno what is Still though I've been curious about this for a long time. OK, my honest opinion? Girth is ALWAYS a great thing. You can be 4" long, but if you've got the girth, I'd still love it. Like we always say, you don't have to hit rock bottom, you just have to scrape the sides... But as far as length, I use this as a personal litmus. If I am holding his cock in my hand, and there is only the head peeking out, he's small, IMO. If I can wrap both my hands around his cock, then he is a GREAT size. As far as actual inches - for me, anything below 5" is SMALL. 6" - 8" is acceptable provided a guy has some decent girth, anything over that, I'm probably not going to be too interested. But, shape also matters...
sumdude Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 But, shape also matters... Oh do tell.... lol
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Oh do tell.... lol Well, it's a personal choice, purely, and Im sure a lot of women wont care. But, I like a well-shaped head - large, mushroom tip. The ones that kinda narrow and look like an arrow turn me off.
Dynamo Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Haha glad I got that question off my chest.. Interesting to hear a women's perspective. Okay then, what do you consider to be good girth? I've never really put any thought into that aspect, but it really does mean a lot come to think of it.
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Dynamo, don't worry 7 in. is perfectly fine...and what's your number? I've had the "tampon" dk before...my 1st time as a matter of fact...which everyone told me will "hurt"...ha ha, no didn't hurt till the 2nd time, obviously...
shadowplay Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Anyone else encounter an A-bomb/mushroom penis?
Dynamo Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 5". Paper towel roll size. Interesting. I believe I'm closer to 4.5ish, not quite 5 but almost. Glad to know I'm "equipped to succeed", or atleast to your standards.
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Interesting. I believe I'm closer to 4.5ish, not quite 5 but almost. Glad to know I'm "equipped to succeed", or atleast to your standards. Call me.
Cobra_X30 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Interesting. I believe I'm closer to 4.5ish, not quite 5 but almost. Glad to know I'm "equipped to succeed", or atleast to your standards. She was talking radius not diameter! Imagine a pristine roll of toilet paper!
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 She was talking radius not diameter! Imagine a pristine roll of toilet paper! Paper towel roll, Cobra, not TP size...
Cobra_X30 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Paper towel roll, Cobra, not TP size... Ah... I apologize... thats twice as big. A roll of Bounty!
Art_Critic Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 A roll of Bounty! The smaller picker upper..
Dynamo Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 The smaller picker upper.. Haha Wait I'm confused now - I thought we were talking circumference?
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Haha Wait I'm confused now - I thought we were talking circumference? I was... don't fret - you're well in the range. And let me just add an additional thought on this topic. The perfect penis is one that is fully utilitarian. One that works well for all three inputs. Keep that in mind, too.
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 It's nice if at least 1 or the other is there...circumference or length,...if it's both I've hit the jackpot...or should I say, HE will hit the jackpot, for SURE
EYECANDY000 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Try different positions. I was in a fwb relationship. and he was just really convient as im sure I was for him as well. I hate to say it, but I never had sex with him sober except when we first became intimate. He was really small and it was over in like 17 seconds. The only position I could do was either on top...
Rooster_DAR Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 It doesn't reach as far as I would like- well, and it's narrow You mean pencildick? I've always been a proponent of "It's not the meaning, it's the motion". He needs to be good a oral sex IMO, and possibly consider using your toys on you (if your comfortable with it). I had a brief fling with a woman in another city last year, and in the heat the moment I told her to go get her dildo which she replied "How do you know I have one of those?". Anyway, I used her own dildo on her and she was trembling for hours afterwards, what a success. Cheers!
Chrome Barracuda Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 A man having a small johnson is a proverbial death sentence! That's the truth hands down. Now I'm not built downstairs like a porno star but I aint no cashew or pinky sized either! lol. The best thing he could do is work on his tougne game. hat might keep you going. But if you want to get piped down by a mssive tree trunk there's not so much he can do. He might be able to loose a little weight or stretch out his jimmy wish some technique i seen in a book, it's worth a shot. If I had a jimmy smaller than my pinky I'd kill myself.
Fancee Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Really this one is for the ladies (unless of course you men have heard stories about how your friends have dealt with a similar situation). How do you make the most of a man who is lacking in the size deptartment? I enjoy the sex because unlike my last bf I don't feel like I am getting skewered during sex and can actually experiment to see what feels good for me. The problem I have is that I always have to get on top and take control of things because I don't feel much otherwise. Have you been through the same and what can you recommend? -please, no cruel jokes... If you are looking for some magic wand - you looking in the wrong place. Why do I say that???? You are complaining and searching. You're just not into that - 'making most of a man or should I say making something out of nothing.' Move on girlfriend....
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