maynicholas Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Really this one is for the ladies (unless of course you men have heard stories about how your friends have dealt with a similar situation). How do you make the most of a man who is lacking in the size deptartment? I enjoy the sex because unlike my last bf I don't feel like I am getting skewered during sex and can actually experiment to see what feels good for me. The problem I have is that I always have to get on top and take control of things because I don't feel much otherwise. Have you been through the same and what can you recommend? -please, no cruel jokes...
Author maynicholas Posted December 19, 2007 Author Posted December 19, 2007 Seriously, have none of you ladies faced this? I'm not trying to be cruel, just looking for ways to maximize the experience.
D-Lish Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I have experienced this. A guy who might compare to my thumb. I have a small thumb fYI. It was all about angles- and finding the right one. It sounds like being on top is a good angle for you. The guy I dated was very very small- I didn't care obviously because I loved him.... but he obviously didn't know what he was like in comparison to others.... because he kept referring to his member as being "huge". All I could come up with at that time was that he had obviously never played a team sport and seen other men in the locker room....lol. Seriously- find the right angle- and stick with that. ;-)
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 but he obviously didn't know what he was like in comparison to others.... because he kept referring to his member as being "huge". Two bf's ago, I dated this guy who was hung like a cashew (only dated two more weeks after the first time we had sex, because he WAS hung like a cashew, and call me shallow, but I just can't spend a lot of time with a guy who is so under-endowed). Anyhoo, he once told me he was really glad he wasn't *small* like some other guys, and waved his pinky in the air. Keep in mind, he had the twig of a 10-year old. Though, he once did give me an orgasm so strong that I passed out. Of course I had to do all the work - lol. May - are you content with the teeny weenie? Some chicks are. Though I'm not a super size queen, I do appreciate the visual of a big one. It's so much more appealing to look at (and enjoy). I don't have advice for best positions for the little guys, as I tend to throw em back. But like D said, just experiment. That is, if he refuses to wear the extender...
Author maynicholas Posted December 19, 2007 Author Posted December 19, 2007 Sometimes in a drought even a small cup of water will have to do Jilly!
Cobra_X30 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Sometimes in a drought even a small cup of water will have to do Jilly! Hyperbole aside... how small is he vs. how big are you? Really don't feel shallow about dumping him over this. If its not a good fit, then it's just not a good fit. Shoot, guys dump flat girls all the time. It's a part of life.
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Sometimes in a drought even a small cup of water will have to do Jilly! And sometimes it's better to wither away with dignity...
Author maynicholas Posted December 19, 2007 Author Posted December 19, 2007 He's not that small, just much smaller than I'm used to. It doesn't reach as far as I would like- well, and it's narrow. I'm not big by any stretch of the imagination. Like I said, it leaves room for a little experimenting on my part, so it will do for now. There is no dumping to be done since he is just my benefits partner/ drinking buddy.
Mustang Sally Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Hung like a cashew.... Hmmm. What mental imagery that evokes. I'm going to add that to my repertoire. Thanks, JB!
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I've had a boyfriend with a small one...I guess it didn't reach far enough for me either, cuz in order to climax I always had to be on top or make him go deep, deep, I mean as deep as he possibly could... also if a guy gets behind you it feels a bit bigger...I'm sure there's other positions like that too, just gotta experiment a little! But honestly I still wasn't that satisified sexually and now I'm glad we're not together for that reason, especially since the guy I have now is about as satisfying as it can possibly get for me...
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 he is just my benefits partner/ drinking buddy. If he's just a FWB then I guess I am failing to see the benefit. The point of an FWB is to have someone who can shag properly.
jerbear Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 As a guy I would suggest for both of you to experiment. Let him "be on top". You on your back and him on the his side for instance.
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 If he's just a FWB then I guess I am failing to see the benefit. The point of an FWB is to have someone who can shag properly. HA agreed....there is always the option of letting him play with your toys for you, if ya know what I mean...
Art_Critic Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 The only thing I know of that will work.. but not help is 2 bricks.. whap !! Twice the size is seconds... Maybe you could work a few toys into your arsenal that he could use on you to help things along ? Go out and by a vibrator and let him use it on you first.. or...what about 2x reading glasses ?
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 There is also stuff out there you can buy for "down there", tightener that has cucumber extract in it..it really works...not only would feel better for you but for him too...I work for a company that distributes it but I wouldn't doubt it's something you could get at any Dr. John's
shadowplay Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 This may be a really stupid question, but I always wonder when people say "small" are they referring to its size hard or soft? I'm assuming hard because all guys look pretty small to me soft.
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I always wonder when people say "small" are they referring to its size hard or soft? I'm assuming hard because all guys look pretty small to me soft. Yea, if girls discuss the size I don't think we're referring to when it's soft...so if we say "small", we're talking about when it's hard! I think it's common knowledge they almost all look "small" while soft...
Cobra_X30 Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 He's not that small, just much smaller than I'm used to. It doesn't reach as far as I would like- well, and it's narrow. I'm not big by any stretch of the imagination. Like I said, it leaves room for a little experimenting on my part, so it will do for now. There is no dumping to be done since he is just my benefits partner/ drinking buddy. So he is small... but not that small? Your just used to bigger.... but your not that big? Hmmm... interesting quandry. Typically I would say go find someone bigger, but since you have him around just for fun anyways... maybe you can dress it up a little. You know, like a puppet show!
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 This may be a really stupid question, but I always wonder when people say "small" are they referring to its size hard or soft? I'm assuming hard because all guys look pretty small to me soft. Shadow - it ONLY matters hard... And some guys are growers, and some are showers - keep that in mind.
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Shadow - it ONLY matters hard... And some guys are growers, and some are showers - keep that in mind. True. I know a guy with fairly small one but it sure doesn't matter when he's f*k**g!!...guess he does whatever should be done to make ya forget...
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 True. I know a guy with fairly small one but it sure doesn't matter when he's f*k**g!!...guess he does whatever should be done to make ya forget... Rufies?
shadowplay Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I once dated a guy whose penis was flat as a pancake...it was very strange. It was practically two-dimensional. Luckily we never got past third base (he turned out to be a jerk).
Jilly Bean Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I once dated a guy whose penis was flat as a pancake...it was very strange. It was practically two-dimensional. Luckily we never got past third base (he turned out to be a jerk). Was it once road kill?
LoveLace Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I once dated a guy whose penis was flat as a pancake...it was very strange. It was practically two-dimensional. Luckily we never got past third base (he turned out to be a jerk). that is strange...
Art_Critic Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 I have heard a little one referred to as a tampon dick before... OP.. You could try anal.. it'll be huge then...
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