Self love is the miracle cure

[Jmina]

~I don't know where you are now, or who youre with, but i will always send love through the air and i am absolutely certain that you will only do good in your life. I didn't have the answers before. I wasn't who i am now. Sometimes i wish i was, but then what is the point of life if you already know the lessons. My one wish for you is for you to find self love and work from this place. Huge amounts of people are going to benefit from you. Set forth. Pheonix Rising~ Jmina

 

I am 7 months on and have discovered a lot.

 

 

When someone special tells you that they will love you forever it becomes deeply engrained into. It melts into your whole being and rests right inside a place that you keep for the ones that you love. - 'your home'

This cannot be destroyed, it's yours, remember it has been imprinted on you with love - what is stronger than love?...

 

If that special person takes their love back, if they stop loving you it feels almost like you are homeless! It is very hard to find this place again even though it actually still does exist. True Love never dies. It can change, it can be put on hold, it can be ignored, it can be moved around from emotion to emotion but it doesn't die. Something that can be hard to deal with for some is that love doesn't stay the same. It can be strong as two people desperately in love, and then in time it can be a part of the universe sent through the wind. You can love from afar. If your heart and mind are wide open.

 

It is only now that you realise the place where you their words were left can be re kindled with the love you create and build for yourself and the universe and the people/animals around you. Suddenly 'the spot' has grown. You are aware of your heart and souls capabilites. The words 'I will always love you' live on, because for you to discover that spot inside you in the first place to embrace love, meant your own self love exists, otherwise you simply could not have truly accepted their love.

 

I read somewhere that 'self love is the miracle cure' It is completely and utterly true. Imagine having a best friend with you all the time who only supports you, loves you, believes in you, who lifts you up at your lowest of lows and is always there 24/7. If you have that inside yourself you dont need to turn to anyone as soon as you feel down, you dont need to block out your hurt, you don't need to take the hard way out!

 

Everytime you love someone it is recorded into the universe. It isnt forgotten by anyone. That person might ot love you how you want them to anymore, or maybe you lost them to reasons beyond both of your control but it did happen for a reason. They have done the right thing by both of your spirits. This is a reflection on loves 2 sided ways. Support and Challenge. It catches up with you always. Support and challenge will always find you in one way or another to keep the balance. This balance keeps the universe forever alive. For example in your own life someone maybe continuely bringing you down, or criticising you, but at the exact same time someone else is lifting you up and putting you on a pedistal. Someone dies, and someone is born, people are starving yet they are happier than most and continue to dance. Challenge is hard. However just like support they both have such valuable gifts to bring to your life. Lessons-wisdom.

 

If we can get this we see that love is all around, and the place where you keep for the ones that you love if kept in balance and harmony will never be destroyed. Even unrequited love has a rainbow!

This keeps you open hearted, it keeps your mind wide open and you can take on many more forms of love that you didnt dream of fulfilling you before. Your deepseated place has frown and you find that many things keep you 'at home'

 

It is wonderful to have been able to unlock this special place when you were loved for the first time. If it werent for them you wuld have it yet. This is why it is better to have loved and lost than to have not loved at all, because now your heart, soul and mind recognize love all around and can continue creating from there.

 

 

 

Jmina

[Trialbyfire]

The words 'I will always love you' live on, because for you to discover that spot inside you in the first place to embrace love, meant your own self love exists, otherwise you simply could not have truly accepted their love.

I agree. Without self-love, your heart will be a blackhole, always needing more, never giving any back because it's all been sucked away. With self-love, your heart is mostly full, therefore it can give and take love.

[LostinBama]

Wow, how philosophical, but it works. This post explains many things about my STBXW and why it was so easy to leave. I always felt that she didn’t love me (ever). I have said that she did not know what true love was, but maybe this is the answer. I will never know, but this post is truly a keeper - very illuminating!