wrestler319 Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 I lost my high school girl... i dated ALOT of girls through out high school, cheated on all of them. then came along her, she was a bitch we hated eachother for 4 years and then one day it clicked. she left her bf for me and i left my gf for her. we were the wildest couple ever. She was EVERYTHING. Wrestling got me into a college from her, and it was the only thing that would get me home, to able to transfer. I spent the summer training. She was working all the time, i had time to see at work i did, and then maybe once or twice during the weekend. the relationship got strained but she was a wreslters girlfriend. and if there are any reading this you know what i mean, the mood swings and anger bursts, or sex mood changings, you girls know what i mean. Then one day it was over... 2 weeks before her abusive ex came around, and i ****ed his ass up, and she felt safe i hope... towards the the days preior my departure to ohio, she became cold and distant. my baby pushed me away, i promised id be back, if shed wait, and all i got was "we'll see". then two weeks later it was over. my world came crashing down. wrestling was the only thing that kept me going. she said that all i wanted was ass and all i cared about was wrestling. but i did need the sport i needed it like a drug, but i need her more. I know im young... i know there might be others... but what happens when i dont try. girls out there tell me what i did wrong...I cant stand seeing her on stickam flirting with dudes from all over the US, facebook. She wrote she still sleeps with the bear i got her dressed in a singlet is this good? Ladies please... i know my past isnt that clean, but i had a girl that made up my world. I cant sleep, cant eat, im home now and this place is empty with out her. shes going away soon for 3 weeks to FL. What did i do? What can I do? This is plea for help? How do i get my baby back?
Lovegod Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 For a dude who's into wrestling, you sound like a whiny bytch. The relationship is over. It's finished. That's part of life and It's time for you to move on. NEVER EVER build your life on the foundation of a woman, or anyone else (including God). Always build your life upon your own goals, desires, and happiness. Women only add or subtract from you happiness, they shouldn't be the source of it. If you build your life on the foundation and source of a woman and they leave you, your whole life will come crashing down and you'll need to rebuild it all over again.
Legend Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 For a dude who's into wrestling, you sound like a whiny bytch. The relationship is over. It's finished. That's part of life and It's time for you to move on. NEVER EVER build your life on the foundation of a woman, or anyone else (including God). Always build your life upon your own goals, desires, and happiness. Women only add or subtract from you happiness, they shouldn't be the source of it. If you build your life on the foundation and source of a woman and they leave you, your whole life will come crashing down and you'll need to rebuild it all over again. I'm gonna have to agree with Lovegod. It sounds like you probably came off as too needy/clingy and she picked up on the fact that you built your life around her. You'll find someone else, but this one is over. Time to move on.
SouthernT Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 Just curious, but how old are you guys? Have you graduated college?
Yosef Posted December 20, 2007 Posted December 20, 2007 After taking Lovegod's advice, your first act of recovery should be to eat. It's hard to do as said, but you need to move on, or life will move on without you and you'll be left behind in the dirt, still wondering where everything went wrong. Remain open-minded for the future and never lose balance of your life.
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