starlite Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 I dont know what I am looking for on this but I had to share and see what other say. The ex and I broke up 2 months ago, I am coping pretty well, but I have down moments as well. Well, a month ago I emailed another ex...from 4 years ago...we could have had a good thing but I was 21 and immature and not over my previous relationship. This ex and I had a LOT of drama. Well, yesterday he finally called me, and we talked and laughed and apologized and it was really really nice. Well, we kind of talked about how neither of us have had sex in a bit and I told him how I hadnt wanted to with anyone new etc and that maybe he would be a nice option. HAHA! (Considering ive been with him before and I am very attracted to him physically and personality wise). Well, he agreed. He might come over tonight, but we both decided this is not JUST about sex...it will be about rekindling our friendship. (and in my mind, and I am sure his...see what happens). He is a bit bitter towards women and I am ok, but maybe a tad bitter as well.) If hormones race...is it ok for me to have protected sex with him??????????? I am really looking forward to seeing him. I guess if I do, we will just see what happens next. If that is all he wants I will find out then and move on pretty darn quickly, but maybe it wont just end...maybe it could be good to have someone around to talk to and fool around with. Am I getting ahead of myself ??? I keep smiling! EEK!
Legend Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 I'd say that it's definitely ok. If you 2 are you really that into each other, it's a good ice breaker to get back together. But if it's all he wants, you'd find that out pretty quick too. Just don't be afraid to show him that you like him. Good luck have an awesome time tonight!
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