sapphire0903 Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 I just can't find a thread ........ Online Dating. My situation: Had been talking to two guys for about the same length of time, online,then phone, and had met each one. Since then I went on one date with guy A and have a date with guy B tomorrow night. I have not felt anything for either other than "really nice gentlemen",....but I am the kind of girl that thinks it takes time, not really a firm believer of love at first sight. What I am struggeling with, is should these two know about each other? (no intamacy, other than a goodnight kiss with guy A.) I had always tried to just communicate with one man at a time, but this time I broke my own rule, .........and find both men interesting, and easy to talk to.........now I am not sure what direction to take. Any advice is much appreciated!!! Happy Holidays to everyone!!
Krytie TV Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 If they asked I wouldn't lie, but otherwise, I shouldn't think you should feel obligated to say anything. I don't.
Author sapphire0903 Posted December 18, 2007 Author Posted December 18, 2007 I was thinking the same, and when they have asked "what did you do tonight," or somehting of that nature, I did not lie, but was very vague, like "not too much, what did you do?" Or should I take that opportunity to tell the truth, and be upfront.
ElvenPriestess Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 Right now you're more finding friendship and getting to know people. You haven't done anything deep or committed so I don't think you need to worry. You're not doing anything wrong, it's only when you make the commitment to one that the other needs to know.
LoveLace Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 I agree, at this point in time I don't think your obligated to give them specifics about your other friendships, which is all they are yet. But if one of them becomes more of a regular, good going thing, that's when you should probably focus on that guy only.
D-Lish Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 You are just dating- it's fine to be mysterious. You do not need to tell either man about the other.
Author sapphire0903 Posted December 18, 2007 Author Posted December 18, 2007 Thanks for the responses...........feeling better about it already!!!
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