can'tbuyabucket Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 over the course of the past month, i have started connecting with a girl in a way that i haven't in a long time. i am a very picky person and this girl has all the characteristics i look for in the opposite sex. the past month we have been very flirty whenever we saw each other. it's just a casual friendship, we hang out in groups every once in awhile, probably about once a week and we've only had a one on one once cause we both just happened to be at the same place at the same time (i didn't do it on purpose). well the girl is very pretty and of the very flirty/friendly variety, and although i know this, i feel as though our chemistry allows her to be extra flirty with me. i know she goes for hard to get guys so i've been trying to play my cards as best as i could. from how i've described it to my friends that are girls, they say she's into me and that she wants me. apparently, her friends had noticed the special attention i have been giving towards her and have told her on numerous occasions that they feel that way, yet she would continue to brush it off and simply say "no he doesn't." at the same time she was very nosy about trying to find out if i liked anyone. i am in college and went out with her friends one night while she was studying and got extremely trashed. i wanted to keep her guessing cause i felt like it was working to my advantage cause at the same time i was kept guessing. well her friends simply asked me while i was trashed if i liked the girl and they figured it out by my facial expression. i'm 99% sure they told her. the next night i saw her at a party where she didn't really know anyone and we sat there and talked and it didn't seem that much different...she was still being flirty. one of my obnoxiously drunk friends would keep coming up to us while we were trying to talk and would say "man you're the coolest person i ever met seriously." it made things very awkward. when she left i told her that i hoped that she had a great break, xmas, new years, and birthday. she said "you're coming for my birthday." while she was waiting for her ride, this obnoxious friend of mine sat there and talked to her and i'm sure he basically laid out all my cards on the table. he doesn't remember what he said. thing is that is the last moment that we hung out before break and thats the last thing that happened. i won't see her until mid january unless she calls me up with her bday plans. i know this is a major tidbit but i want to keep it in the back for now but she does have a boyfriend and from what it seems, they're relationship is headed towards the end. he'd rather smoke pot and play video games with his friends then hang out with her. i'm not trying to wedge myself between them. i've been waiting for things to naturally end on they're own. should i be worried?
Krytie TV Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 i know this is a major tidbit but i want to keep it in the back for now but she does have a boyfriend and from what it seems, they're relationship is headed towards the end. he'd rather smoke pot and play video games with his friends then hang out with her. i'm not trying to wedge myself between them. i've been waiting for things to naturally end on they're own. should i be worried? *facepalms with accompanying sigh* Yes my friend, a girl's relationship is always "headed towards the end" when they're flirting with other guys. That's how it works. They love the attention they get when they can convince some poor sap that they're "looking" for another guy. My advice. Let her make first contact after break. Do nothing until/unless she does. I would personally tell you to forget her, but I have the feeling she already has you wrapped around her finger.
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