Kiahleigh Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 So he broke up with me Thursday moved out I havent seen him since Friday morning which is so strange after living together.. so I blew his phone up Thursday- Sunday finally this morning I told myself I wouldn't do this anymore. .so he began texting me all day long up until like 6 pm (of course I responded but stayed strong) then it just stopped... so about an hour ago I started to get real mad cause he shouldn't have played with my emotions by doing that all day.. giving me false hope for what? hasn't he made me suffer already why stir it back up? so now I'm back to where I was on thursday miserable.. he turned his phone off cause I sent him a nasty message this just isnt right he has me where he wants me and I don't know what to do to release myself.. why is he doing this to me? why won't he just let me go I finally got stronger today to be knocked on my ass again.. this just isn't right I need some advice
amaysngrace Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 (of course I responded but stayed strong) That's a complete contradiction. If you stayed strong you would not have responded. Remember what I told you this afternoon? I told you if you contact him it'll boost his ego while lowering your own. See what I'm saying?
Author Kiahleigh Posted December 18, 2007 Author Posted December 18, 2007 yeah I know I just don't get why he is making me so weak.. this sucks its hard
sedgwick Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 he's not making you weak. he's not your boyfriend anymore and therefore does not deserve to talk to you any longer. NC, baby, NC! you can do it! i've been at it for 4 months now! also, you're not even a week into your breakup yet. you're not expected to be sane right now. this is curled-up-sobbing-in-your-pajamas time still.
amaysngrace Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 yeah I know I just don't get why he is making me so weak.. this sucks its hard You are a strong person. Give yourself some credit. You have done a lot for one person and I admire that. You don't really need someone like him. You should have someone who brings out the best in you. He doesn't sound like he's it.
Mylife Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 My dear... Its going to be ok, I promise you. YOU WILL BE FINE!! take my word for it. I just got out of a relationship just over 2 months back, and I stayed strong and kept myself up there. So trust me, if I can do it, anyone can!! I assure you, the best way is to stop all contact with him, even if he calls you, don't answer. I did that myself, and I know how hard it is to not talk to him, and how much you may cry, because I did too. But I talk from experience, its the right thing to do. It will hurt like a million swords now, but trust me, you will know in a few weeks that it was the right thing. After a few weeks, you will feel so proud of what you have accomplished and that will make you feel eve stronger. Also, think of it this way, the guy doesn't deserve you...feel sorry for the loser who lost a precious girl like you. Seriously, these loser guys loose pretty girls like us I feel real sad for them, but happy for the new guys that will get us now. And you never know, the new one may just be a lot sexier and a lot nicer than the prev, then you will be like "man thank god he is gone, or else I would have never found this new hunk" Sweetheart, no matter how bad it sounds...let him go dear. I had to do the same thing, I am 18 and mine was my first date/bf/kiss/relationship/breakup. So TRUST ME!!...If I can do it, so can u! Hang in there, and don't cry...rant all you want here because we will all be here for you. Lastly, DONT CALL HIM!...I made that mistake when I was sad once after the breakup...hugee mistake...never talked on the phone since. Dont do the same...its a warning
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