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So me and my ex boyfriend have been broken up for almost 9 months now. We were together for a year and a half and he ended up cheating on me with an ex-girlfriend and they are still together. Well me and my ex have a mutual friend. (me and her have actually become very close and I consider her one of my dearest friends who helped me a lot through my breakup). Her boyfriend is also friends with my ex.

 

I haven't talked to my ex in months...I just wanted to cut all ties and move on. I have been doing pretty well!! Anyway, our mutual friend told me that my ex has been telling all his friends that I still text him and send him pictures of myself!! Which of course is not true!!! He actually texted me a few months back saying that he wishes he never broke up with me. He has a girlfriend now who he says he is happy with, so why is he telling lies about me?? Anyone been through aything similar to this?? And what did you do??It's kind of getting to me! :eek:

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While this has never happened to me before, that I'm aware of, your ex sounds very immature.

 

Here's a couple of options of how to handle this:

  • Let it blow over because he is your ex and sooner or later, he will get tired of telling lies.
  • You can call your ex out on his lies, in front of the aforementioned g/f and her b/f. Of course this method means that he can continue to lie during this confrontation and it will become a situation of your word against his word. Sounds a bit like a drama central solution.

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Something I hadn't thought about. You can confront him about his lies by yourself, and ask him why he'd doing this. Maybe he's upset about your refusal to give him a second chance.

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Thanks for your response Trial!! I think you are definately right about him being very immature. And I have caught him telling lies about me before (during our breakup). And I even confronted him about them, but he continued to lie to me and not admit the truth. He is so impossible that way. He just uses lies to cover up lies. And that is why I am not even going to waste my energy confronting him about it.

 

As for the second chance thing, when he texted me about 4 months ago saying he regretted what he did, I did ask him what he wanted with us and he said nothing...he said he was too busy with work and other things. So why even tell me he regrets breaking up with me if he wouldnt do ANYTHING about it? That just baffles me. After that text I just left it alone.

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