tjl1950 Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 Hi everyone-this is my first time in this forum and I was wonderinging if anyone has a situation like mine-I am married almost 32 years and I am 57 years old. We have 2 grown children.We never had a good marriage and now I want to go my separate way and I believe,so does she.I am confused on what to do because I am married so long.Does anyone have a similar situation and can offer advice? Basically we live in the same house but apart.
sadhubby Posted December 18, 2007 Posted December 18, 2007 wow !! my wife of 8yrs gets her papers served tommorow when i read stuff like this it makes me wonder why people even bother to get married 32 years and nothing worked? do people just get that sick of eachother? how did ya make it that long with nothing there?
Author tjl1950 Posted December 19, 2007 Author Posted December 19, 2007 2 reasons why i stayed so long in a bad marriage-for my kids and my wife was dependant on me for support-1 income. All wrong reasons to stay in a marriage.
bestadvisor Posted December 19, 2007 Posted December 19, 2007 Hi everyone-this is my first time in this forum and I was wonderinging if anyone has a situation like mine-I am married almost 32 years and I am 57 years old. We have 2 grown children.We never had a good marriage and now I want to go my separate way and I believe,so does she.I am confused on what to do because I am married so long.Does anyone have a similar situation and can offer advice? Basically we live in the same house but apart. What's wrong with the marriage? Why can't the problems be fixed? Was there ever an affair? If you been married for so long has have two kids, there must been some good times in those years. What was the last time you and your wife had fun together?
Author tjl1950 Posted December 20, 2007 Author Posted December 20, 2007 of course there were good times.My wife was financially dependant on me for the first 25 years of marriage and always reminded me that this was the case.She went to school part time and got her masters and she has been making good money-this is the time I have seen the major separation of our already weak marriage.People change and situations change-we live in a society of non-commitmant and selfishness which is present in both partners
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