huh???

[Bogun]

What is going on here??? She texts me about all kinds of things going on in her day, she has sat in a bar till 2am with just me several times, she rearranged things with her friends recently so that she could have dinner with me, and then apparently gets dressed up to have dinner with me (or perhaps thats just my lack of style thinking she's dressed up when she's not) and when I asked her out to dinner again she tells me that she's not sure she'll have time for dinner but can squeeze me in for a drink sometime. If you're into someone wouldnt you make time so that you could spend some time with them?? Or is that just me?

 

Ok yeah I havent made a move on her yet, but I dont know whats going on with her. As far as I know she doesnt have a boyfriend, and if she does I think spending time with me the way she does is not right. Or am I being unrealistic and needy, as she simply is busy at the moment and a drink is the best she can do? Everytime I'm on the verge of making a move on her or simply telling her that I like her, she will say something or do something that makes me think twice about giving more attention to her. From past relationships I've developed a real problem with feeling like I'm being used for whatever reasons, maybe sometimes its just me being screwed up, but am I being used here? Or am I being unfair and expecting too much?

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Maybe shes thinking the same thing and wondering why you havent made a move yet? Maybe the fact that you havent has put her off a bit I dunno just a guess there. Eather that or she just wantes to be friends I would text a good friend all thu my day if they were ok with it that is. And I would also go out with one even at a bar at 2 am long as we knew were we stood if there was any question before hand. Prob just me but even if she had a bf I don't see the prob with going out with a guy friend long as the night dident end up in a lip lock. My advice ask her out and find out one way or the other to put your mind at ease.