Jmina Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 I have recently gained a new friend who strongly reminds me of my ex. She looks similar, has similar interests and is also very interested in me (as a friend, she is engaged) I really do like this person and i have a facination with her, i have found myself looking at her facebook a few times but i always cancel the page because she just reminds me of my ex and i tends to make me feel sad. How do i manage this new friendship so i can seperate her from thinking about my ex? i thought that after i get to know her she will end up being nothing like my ex and so it will kind of take care of itself. At least i hope so. I believe that everything happens for a reason, so i wonder why i have met this girl who reminds me of my ex a whole lot - and to make it harder this girl also is interested in me (platonic) and made it clear that she would love to catch up as we share very similar morals, views, etc. Is there another lesson to be learnt? i guess i wont know untill i have learnt it? Maybe she has a door way to something benefical. .. anyways I has been about 5 months since my ex and i have stopped talking. I feel that i have moved on in most ways, especially within myself, i have made this completely about me and ive found it to be great, however i still long to make peace with my ex. So Still more to do with me. i still get quite upset that she is gone. Anyway i hope to gain some advice from good old love shack. Mainly with the friendship. Jmina x
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