ArtsyChick Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 The text message seems to be the most confusing form of instant communication. Convienent, yes, but clear, not always. So, here is the deal. Met a guy. Went out. Had an amazing time. Good connection. Fierce chemistry. Made the mistake of taking an offer to stay the night, although he was a gentlemen about it, false intimacy is not a good way to fire up a new deal with someone. He said he was heading out that night to a place we both frequent, and I ended up going out, after having stated that I wasnt' going to be. So, I fired off a text to say I was there, in case he was out, (did not want to seem as if I went there to see him, specifically, but just in case I did, I wanted him to have a heads up). Bottom line: No reply. I don't think the issue is being over eager - I'm not. Just wanted to avoid a potentially akward situation. Now, should I bother following up or simply move on in a few days if I don't hear back? thanks. AC.
D-Lish Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 I wouldn't text again. Since you texted him the last time and didn't hear back- the ball is in his court. If you text again, it might appear too over eager. Sleeping over isn't a big deal... I am not sure why that would turn someone off. If he doesn't reach out again, then it's time to move on. He got your text- and he's sitting on it. Give it a day or two and then move on if you haven't heard from him. Sending him another text won't change his mind about a second date. It will only drive you crazy over thinking what is going on in his head. SOmetimes people are just wishy-washy.... It's nothing you did or didn't do.
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