AurorasStar Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 ... I'd like to bring up New Year's Eve with my guy. The guy who wants no titles, and describes our reltaionship as working-on-things-after-I-moved-closer-to-him-and-he-called-it-quits-and-then-apologized-and wanted-me-back-but-still-with-no-titles-just-so-that-we'd-not-date-other-people type of relationship. Anyways... I do not want to assume that we're going to spend New Years Eve with him, but I don't have a party to go to. Nothing really to invite him to. I'd have a party of my own but I still only know a few people and most of them already have plans. I want a quiet night in with him. Like we were supposed to have last NYE but didn't (my fault...). Do I just say 'i want us to be together?' or do i say 'what are we doing for nye?' or something like 'i think we should just stay in for nye' Things are always so iffy with him. So my question is... Do I ask him with an assumption that we're going to be together and I just want us to be at home? I hate this 'taking things slow again' phase in our relationship.
Lucky555 Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 I don't understand how you can put up with this. I literally just did the same thing that you did except its now been two months and he still is the same way! I honestly can't deal with that so i just basically dumped him..hes still a friend still communicate but i am doing the whole "if were not dating then i am not hanging out thing" ALSO KNOWN AS AVOIDING HIM. I am sure he understands what happening by now in which I don't care anymore just fed up with all that bs. I wish you good luck hopefully the guy makes the right choice. My advise if your giving this a shot ask him to see the fireworks with you and stay in and drink wine or something. Just you two. sounds good to me.
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