tkgirl Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 I posted this last night on the general board, but there isn't enough action over there for me so I thought I'd try this one! here it is: what makes you REALLY want a women.. like what is it about her that makes you want to see her again etc. Do you like it when she acts more aloof, or when she shows she wants you (but not too much) Is it just something that you just feel when you are around her, and what exactly is it that she does that makes that you want to be around her more? If you could all shine some light on this I'm sure a lot of us girls would appreciate it! And maybe "we" can give you some insight as to what we like to... but you go first!
tanbark813 Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 I like it when a girl shows definite interest. The little arm touch girls do is great. Compliments and paying attention score points. When a girl acts aloof I usually assume she's just not interested. There have been a couple times when a girl acted aloof on a first date and I (mistakenly) assumed it was due to a lack of interest. Later I found out she was just nervous. And never underestimate the power of cleavage.
brothermartin Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 For me it's a mix of a lot of little things and a lot of big things. The closest I come to describing it is a spark that becomes a fire. It's usually in an instant. Things like appearance, smells, voice, body language all factor in for the beginning. What makes me want more of her is personality, personal status, if she likes me,of course, and general demeanor. Tight jeans and a thong also gose a long way! Hope that helped.
Author tkgirl Posted December 16, 2007 Author Posted December 16, 2007 great responses so far... it's always nice to hear a guys point of view on things. The thing I'm dealing with right now is I really like this guy I met a while ago... there's definitely a spark there with us and the attraction seems to only be building, but we still haven't "sealed the deal" yet... I really want to, but don't want him to lose respect for me. I just want to be sure about us as a couple. We get along great and have lots of fun together...and all the things you both mentioned I definitely feel with him... I can tell he really likes me and is attracted to me... and I do try show him that I like him a lot too. It's just sometimes he can be a little "aloof" and he even admitted it and has apologized for it etc. Says he has a lot going on and sometimes he can't spend as much time with me as he would like etc. And he geniunely seems bummed about it. I don't know why I get so insecure about us... but if a day or two goes by and I don't hear from him I start to freak out. I know... lame... it's just hard at the beginning of a relationship to know what the other person is thinking. I try to be patient but... anyways, thanks for letting me vent! Oh, and anybody else like to share?
Dynamo Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 If a girl is very smiley, laughs a lot, very touchy-feely, holds eye contact, etc etc.. All makes you want to be with them again. Also a girl really captures me if she seems interested in what I have to say as well as having her own opinions and things to add to conversations. If your looking for visual things, though.. Thats really on a per-guy basis (and besides, I think most women know what men like to see )
sumdude Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 I know... lame... it's just hard at the beginning of a relationship to know what the other person is thinking. Heck it's hard to know what someone is thinking affter 5 - 10 years together and marriage. That's why communication is the key.. There are so many things that go into what really works for any given person. Appearance, chemistry, conversation and personality... Smell really affects me in the chemistry department. Pheromones have a lot to do with it.
Phateless Posted December 17, 2007 Posted December 17, 2007 I posted this last night on the general board, but there isn't enough action over there for me so I thought I'd try this one! here it is: what makes you REALLY want a women.. like what is it about her that makes you want to see her again etc. Do you like it when she acts more aloof, or when she shows she wants you (but not too much) Is it just something that you just feel when you are around her, and what exactly is it that she does that makes that you want to be around her more? If you could all shine some light on this I'm sure a lot of us girls would appreciate it! And maybe "we" can give you some insight as to what we like to... but you go first! I like it when a girl is confident and strong enough in herself to not play games. Intelligence and a bit of a smartass is good. If you like me, show it! But also go easy on me if I appear to need space. When it's the right girl, I pretty much just know for no apparent reason.
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