How do i know he is telling the truth

[AznOzzie]

Ok i wrote a thread couple days ok asking why he won't call, Well last night he actually called me and he said he wanted to keep on seeing me.

Today i messaged him and he hasn't replied, I don't know if he is telling me the truth, He stopped calling and messaging me for a week and i kept on calling + messaging but no reply anyways, how can i explain this um

do you think that he was gonna stop seeing me but he didn't tell me cause he thinks he can just message or call when he feels like, Or when he wants something, Hope that makes sense.

Does anyone know how i can ask him, And how would i know if he is telling the truth

[Ssheena]

A) you have already gotten good advice on the 2 other threads you started basically saying the same thing... he won't call me, he won't return my texts etc.

AND YOU ARE THE ONE THAT ENTITLED YOUR THREAD

"SUICIDE" and then have not even gone back and reposted/answered the questions comments on that thread. As one poster there pointed out, we take that kind of stuff very seriously here.

 

b) How old are you? He's 23 you are ??? It seems to me like you are being a real pest to him. Open your eyes. You had sex with him on the first time you all went out and since then you have attempted to contact him and now he stops.

 

c) your posts are going to have to be a clearer.

 

Here's what I have gathered. He's 23, you have seen each other off and on for a month, he doesn't want a relationship, you had sex the first time you went out, and now he hasn't been responding to your texts/calls and denying he even received them.

Now he called and said he wanted to keep on seeing you (translation, using you for sex and that's it and only when he is in the mood) and you don't seem to respond to anyones posts back to you and feel there is some sort of "magic" answer.

 

I have $5 or better yet, 5 Euro's that say he's using you.

[sedgwick]

So he wants to keep seeing you? Aren't you glad you didn't kill yourself?

[ElvenPriestess]

A) you have already gotten good advice on the 2 other threads you started basically saying the same thing... he won't call me, he won't return my texts etc.

AND YOU ARE THE ONE THAT ENTITLED YOUR THREAD

"SUICIDE" and then have not even gone back and reposted/answered the questions comments on that thread. As one poster there pointed out, we take that kind of stuff very seriously here.

 

b) How old are you? He's 23 you are ??? It seems to me like you are being a real pest to him. Open your eyes. You had sex with him on the first time you all went out and since then you have attempted to contact him and now he stops.

 

c) your posts are going to have to be a clearer.

 

Here's what I have gathered. He's 23, you have seen each other off and on for a month, he doesn't want a relationship, you had sex the first time you went out, and now he hasn't been responding to your texts/calls and denying he even received them.

Now he called and said he wanted to keep on seeing you (translation, using you for sex and that's it and only when he is in the mood) and you don't seem to respond to anyones posts back to you and feel there is some sort of "magic" answer.

 

I have $5 or better yet, 5 Euro's that say he's using you.

 

I do hope you actually read all this AznOzzie, every point here needs to be taken, and as you don't respond on your other threads, at least read the posts on this one please.

[Ronni_W]

I agree with the others -- just waaayyyyy too much drama for a month-long, on/off acquaintanceship!

 

He is actually being very clear: "If I want to hook-up with YOU, I'll get in touch."

 

It's not a pretty message to receive, but facing that reality now will stop you from making a foolish pest of yourself later.

[Cabbage Patch]

move on, sounds like this is way more trouble than its worth. Its harsh but it shouldnt be this hard, if he aint calling well then he's probably not as interested as you...