Kelso Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 I used to post here a lot back in the days. Actually, LS was my guide back to the singles life... Well...This was the forum I used the most and I have some problems now...and I would like some advices from the same forum... a) My ex. We broke up about 1,5 year ago. It didn't work but it was probably the biggest loss of my life so far. I haven't seen her in 6 months, but every time I go partying I start thinking about if I am gonna run into her tonight. It happens every f*cking time. Mainly because we used to party a lot, we still do but separately now. Also, she lives 3 minutes from the main partying district of our town, which only counts about 100k people (incl. suburbs). I don't want her back, thats for sure. I wish her all the best in the future ... but she won't leave my mind. How can I stop thinking so much? b) There is this girl in my college that I really like. That's when I freeze. If I like the girl, I get too shy to buy her a coffee. Don't get me wrong. I'm quite good looking (8/10 probably) and I make quite a lot of money even though I don't have me Bs. yet. Well ... none of that matters. I've been on numbers of dates with a lot of women for the past year ... but if I really like the girl, I can't do anything. Weird. We know each other ... saying hi every time and she's asked me questions about courses I've finished but she hasn't and stuff. We know each other ... but I just can't take the step. c) About the girl in section b. I really like her ... but I made out with her friend the other day. It was nothing serious and I doubt that she knows about it ... but ... what to do ... what to do d) There is this other girl at school. I'm not interested in a relationship with her, but she's sexy as hell. Now that I've described her looks, it's time to describe her behavior. We were partying few weeks ago and I started making fun of something she did. Tonight she told me that she felt really bad the other week I was making fun of her. I was really sorry and apologized. Tonight we all went partying again. She was rubbing her ass against me the whole evening. Dancing really close to my body. Holding my hand and trying to drag me around (I didn't let her though). She followed me when I went to the bar ... and like a gentleman I bought her some drinks. I don't know if she was taking advantage of me ... and I actually don't give a ****. She has a boyfriend (never seen him and don't know him). But I just don't get why she acts like this if she has a boyfriend. At least I wasn't hitting on her. Well long story short ... I don't know why a girl would act like she did tonight. I know that I would be furious if my GF acted like she did tonight. So...I ask ... why is she being like this? Do you guys have any inputs to my problems?? Everything will be appreciated...
amaysngrace Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 The girl you describe as sexy as hell has a boyfriend. Maybe that's why you find her sexy. Because she's unavailable. Sounds like you don't want a serious relationship right now. Oh and her BF....chances are after hearing you bought his GF drinks all night and was dancing with her too...I'm guessing you'll be meeting him sooner than you know it.
cant let go Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 sounds like you are scared to get too close to anyone because you are afraid of getting hurt again. this seems normal to me and is something that you will need to work on to get yourself to a point where you are open to a relationship with someone and not just making out with a random. the girl in part c is probably just looking for attention. she may be having some problems feeling appreciated by her boyfriend and was looking for someone to make her feel wanted for the night. you did the right thing by just playing it cool with her.
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