HenryII Posted December 21, 2007 Posted December 21, 2007 My advice is to become independent. You need a few years WITHOUT a SO in your life. It is the only way u can find out who u really are! I moved to soon from one marriage to the next and am now at the end of my 2nd marriage with astonishingly similar cicumstances. That does not mean u must go without sex , just a couple dates then move on.
Rooster_DAR Posted December 21, 2007 Posted December 21, 2007 My advice is to become independent. You need a few years WITHOUT a SO in your life. It is the only way u can find out who u really are! I moved to soon from one marriage to the next and am now at the end of my 2nd marriage with astonishingly similar cicumstances. That does not mean u must go without sex , just a couple dates then move on. Very sound and wise advise here, but might be difficult since you are already in a situation. D'oh!
nellstar Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 It is best if you get some time away from both. I don't think going back to your H is such a good idea seeing that he's a recovering alcoholic and I have had an experience with one, it didn't go well. All he ever did was making promises and breaking them up. No thanks. Take the time to re-evaluate yourself and what it is that you want in a relationship. It's not wrong to be single for some time to work things out. It can turn out to be the best decision you've ever made.
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