bandgeek0203 Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Im having trouble telling if this guy is interested in me or not. Any input would be appreciated. We met over the summer and now go to school together, we have gone on three dates, and then sort of had a little fight which seems to have blown over. He wanted me to call him to go on a date but I never did and he never mentioned it so I thought it was over. Then out of the blue he emailed me and asked why I never called. I really like this guy, but I'm just not sure! He's done some confusing stuff that makes me think he doesn't really like me, but is just using me for how I look. (not that we've even done anything!) 1.) Told me he had a crush on this girl who is like his best friend. He told me that he told her and she rejected him. 2.) Ignored me out of the blue ( I think because he felt I wasnt interested and was mad??) Not sure. But he did apologize. 3.) Doesn't call me really, most of our communication is online. But then again I think that's not so rare in my age group...?? 4.) Sometimes says inappropriate things that I dont think guys should say to girls they like. He made a rude comment to me once -won't go into details. Things he's done that make me think he's interested: 1.) initiated dates and insisted on paying for them 2.) told me he liked me It's like...he seems like hes not interested, but he keeps coming back to me. Not sure. is just immature? What's going on!
Author bandgeek0203 Posted December 15, 2007 Author Posted December 15, 2007 bump, please! thanks in advance.
Author bandgeek0203 Posted December 15, 2007 Author Posted December 15, 2007 thanks in advance for responses
Mezzi Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 He sounds like a player to me and he also seems slighty conceited. If he were truely interested he would have called you and asked you out even though you were supposed to call. I think this guy is just bored and looking for a quick fix.
whichwayisup Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 If you really really really like this guy, then ask him out and see what happens, but if you aren't too sure, then just back off of him, I mean, his actions and his words are all over the place, which IS confusing. People like that are into some kind of game, whether it be thrill of the chase, or doing stupid things then nice things just to keep the other person on their toes. It's dramatic and exhausting...If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't bother. He doesn't sound like the nicest and greatest guy, you can do better.
Touche Posted December 16, 2007 Posted December 16, 2007 I think he's just acting like a really normal guy. Well at least for a guy who is between maybe 19 and 25. Did I get the age right? Hee hee. Chill. Just be his friend, go out and have fun. If you're looking for any type of long term thing with him though, I fear you will be in for a disappointment. But no, I don't think he's a really bad guy. Just normal for that age. He seems to like you.
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