jack_frost Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 so let me start by saying i having been going on random dates a lot lately and been disappointed. i find that people i talk to online, then on the phone and then in person seem to misrepresent themselves a lot. they are one way online and the phone and then completely different in person. i still have a good time when i go out with them but i can tell nothing is going to ever come of it. i'm the kind of person who still feels excited when i meet someone i think is great, sometimes i make it known how i feel right away. things like how great the person seems, how i;m glad i met them, so on and so forth. now i have yet to meet anyone who feels exactly the same as i do in the beginning. until last week. i went out with this girl to what was supposed to be just a quick meet for drinks, hour tops. that turned into drinks, pool, and food afterwards...ending at 3 in the morning. when it ended we kissed and for the first time i got someone telling me things like. "where did you come from", "you are amazing", and "i feel so comfortable with you". now i felt the same, it didn't even seem like a first date, we were like 2 people who had been out several times before, that's how good we clicked. so the date ended i walked her back to her car again, kissed her and she said to me "is tomorrow to soon to see you again". i said no and she said she would call me. she explained her job was crazy and she would call me but it may be late. i told her no problem i understand her job. so the next day comes, and she text messages me explaining her job is still going and that she wants a rain check for the next night. so the next night comes and she calls me and says that her job is still going and that she hopes i understand. she asks if she is screwing things up already and i tell her no, i get her job and it's not a big deal. she tells me her job is wrapping up the next afternoon and that she will call me. so the next day comes she texts me in the afternoon says she is almost done and that she will call me in a bit.....no call. that was last friday. so i decide to let it go and i don't contact her till wednesday, i ring her and leave her a message saying hey call me when you get a chance. so texts me and says she is sorry that her works got crazy and she will call me. it's now saturday and no call. now let me explain a couple things. first i am not waiting patiently by the phone for her, so please don't think that is how i am here. the only reason i am even still trying to see if anything happens is because like i said before this is the first time i clicked with someone right away so well and that we both felt the same way about it. now i would think she is blowing me off but, she is the one who called me each time. she went out of her way to tell me she wasn't flaking on me and then asked if she was screwing things up already. i am just baffled. i hate games, and i really hate not knowing for sure. to me i would rather hear someone isn't interested. then know how well we clicked and wonder what the hell happened. not sure what i am looking for from you guys. maybe this is just me venting. maybe someone else has been through this kind of thing. anyway, tanks for reading.
garnet Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 It sounds like she may be hiding something, because it doesn't add up. There may be another guy in the picture. I have been through something similar recently, and the worst part is that you don't understand it and wonder if it was something you did or said. But rest assured, it's not you. You don't know her, so who knows what else could be going on in her life. If I were you, I wouldn't call her again. You've done all you can do, she knows you're interested, and it's rude of her not to return your call, especially after she said she would. Get yourself back out there and try your best to move on. If she shows up again with a good explanation for why she flaked, then you can decide how you feel about that. I don't understand flaky people! Good luck.
topsekkrets Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 I wouldn't keep this serious, God knows you'll end up hurt in the end. Remember to just stay away from things you can't understand.
Author jack_frost Posted December 15, 2007 Author Posted December 15, 2007 It sounds like she may be hiding something, because it doesn't add up. There may be another guy in the picture. I have been through something similar recently, and the worst part is that you don't understand it and wonder if it was something you did or said. But rest assured, it's not you. You don't know her, so who knows what else could be going on in her life. If I were you, I wouldn't call her again. You've done all you can do, she knows you're interested, and it's rude of her not to return your call, especially after she said she would. Get yourself back out there and try your best to move on. If she shows up again with a good explanation for why she flaked, then you can decide how you feel about that. I don't understand flaky people! Good luck. oh, i know i didn't do anything wrong, that's isn't something i am wondering. thanks for the response =)
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