AznOzzie Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Hi i've been seeing this guy for about 1month now, We seen each other a couple weeks ago, Everything seemed fine. He dropped me of at home and usally he will message me but he didn't. I've been messaging and calling him but he won't answer. Is he with some other girl or did i do something wrong, Or did he use me, I don't know if he used me because after we had sex the first time he kept in contact with me, What should i do
ElvenPriestess Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 First of all, how old is this guy if I may ask, and could you give a bit more detail on how things were up until he stopped calling?
Author AznOzzie Posted December 15, 2007 Author Posted December 15, 2007 First of all, how old is this guy if I may ask, and could you give a bit more detail on how things were up until he stopped calling? He is 23, everything was going good, he would say he wanted to be with me then he'd say he's not ready for a relationship. Hope that is enough
blon_dee Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 I had a similar thing happen a few years back when i was dating.... he just dropped off the face of the earth..Ended up emailing me a few weeks later and said, he just "wasnt into me"... A thought?? Guys are weird.. lol... Good luck
blon_dee Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Oh, and just a tip, stop calling/messaging him.... I learnt that one from experience.... ;-) (says i, who is trying to do NC with bf i broke up with a week ago!!lol) But at the early stages of the game, dont appear too keen... Thats just my advice anyway...
ElvenPriestess Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 He is 23, everything was going good, he would say he wanted to be with me then he'd say he's not ready for a relationship. Hope that is enough Oh yes, that will do. He should be old enough to be past the immature games of guys younger than him (that's not EVERYONE so no offense meant to whoever might be reading.) Sounds like he's unsure of himself, and he may have possibly been using you. It sounds bad but possibly accurate. Honestly, if he's that wishy-washy after only a month, I'd say he's too unstable. Oh, and if he DOES happen to try and get you back or anything, no sex. Trust me on that. And THEN see how long he sticks around.
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