3rdI Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 I am so happy that I am single again and not engaged. I went for happy hour tonight and had a good time. I felt so free. I met many new people and it was scary going out by myself after being engaged and part of a couple. For those of you that are unsure, just do it. I am not from the place where I live and I had to meet new people and be friendly. It was worth it. I gave out my phone number like cheap mints or toothpicks.....don't know if i will answer but hey...it felt good to be fawned over. I feel like I have rediscovered myself and I just wanted to tell everyone and give hope to those that are mourning a break up or loss. Just get out there, don't hook up or take anything seriously but enjoy yourself to the fullest.
kymberann Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Thanks for that advise! So hard to do when you miss the person so much. I have not reached that point, basically because I just don't want to get caught up with dirt bags that want to just mess around and then be done, which is what I am afraid it would turn out to be for me. But anyway, congrats for you that you have lived to tell and are enjoying life again! Best!
Trialbyfire Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 It's a pretty empowering feeling, knowing that you're free after such an experience. Enjoy. Word of advice, don't get into a relationship during this vulnerable period. If it's the wrong guy, it can set you backwards.
Author 3rdI Posted December 15, 2007 Author Posted December 15, 2007 TBF: I am aware if that vulnerability. But I have conditioned my mind and I am so free right now and it feels so good....no one will take that away from me. I am on a 6-12 month break and after that, if I get into a relationship and I am not as free as I feel now...then that is not the relationship for me. This feels too good right now and in hindsight, I can see that this is how I was before I met him and then his dark/depressive spirit rubbed of on me. I wasn't happy, but now I know that a 190lb burden, plus more, is gone. Praise G_d! Hallelujah! Glory be to G_d! You have no idea:D:D:D:D:D I am :lmao:and jumping for joy:bunny:
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