asilisa Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Well hello everyone. My ex and I have been broke up for a month and a half about. Too bad for me that my ex wanted to keep talking to me and hanging out from time to time. Every time I tried to tell him we couldn't talk anymore he wouldn tell me he wanted to be with me but he wasn't sure we'd work out...blah, blah, blah. I fell for it everytime. Well, today I called him and told him that I want to be with him (it's not secret) but I'm not doing it anymore. He can make his decision without talking to me because I'm not waiting around anymore. I told him I deserve to be happy and I'm not happy talking to him. He told me that I was putting him in a bad position, "What did I want him to say?" I told him nothing and perhaps a little time away from me would help him make his decision easier. I told him I'm not asking anything of him...I just want to be happy. Why should he get to talk to me whenever he wants and I'm stuck hurting? I didn't want to be in the same place a year from now and he said neither did he. I stuck to my guns and told him no more talking and have a merry christmas and a happy new year. We said good bye and that was that. Trust me I'm sad but at the same time I feel like I took a step off the roller coaster. Or atleast the yo-yo string he had me on. I now have control over myself and it feels good. I know I'll be sad and I'll cry but it's so much better to have control. Thanks for listening everyone. Hope everyone else is doing well. --Lisa
Graduate Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Hi Lisa, that's great! Congratulations, and I am sure you did the right thing. Independent of whether he wants you back some day or not, you said your piece and now you can move on without the emotional roller-coaster. It took a lot of strength to do that, and you should be very proud of yourself.
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