Something happened....

[Mylife]

Ok, so today I am going through a normal day, and I was day dreaming alittle, so I thought of this fact randomly that how every tissue has a story to tell.

 

I know its really awkward, but if you think about it, a tissue is used when someone is sick or someone is crying, therefore always something bad. So just think, if a tissue could talk, ever single tissue would have a different story of how they were used. Yes, I know, its really very out of the blue.

 

Well anyway, so I had this line "EVERY TISSUE HAS A STORY TO TELL" as my msn nick since yesterday and today. I was just doing school work today and baam!! out of the blue I see a message pop up on my screen, its him...messaging me on msn.

 

him: YO!

Me: Hey What's up.

him: r u ok?

Me: (thinking what the hell??...then I rememberd my nick) You mean my nick?

him: yeh

Me: oh that...yeah I am alrite (explain my whole tissue theory)

him: yes thats true

Me: so yeh...I am ok not worry, its just for fun

him: k

him: ok I gotta go...ttul

Me: alright, cya.

 

And the convo ended there.

 

Now, what I am thinking is, I haven't spoken to this guy for 2 months + now...just once and that was totally nothing (you can read about that in prev posts).

 

I think that I shouldn't make anything of it and just know and be happy that atleast he still cares for me. That actually made me really feel happy .

 

I am really hoping that he is trying to be friends again, because I really really want that, I don't miss him as the bf as much anymore, as I do the best friend taht I had. He was my best friend before we started dating.

 

So do you think that he is trying to be friends again?...Or is he trying to get back into a relationship again? Or was he just being caring at that moment and making sure everything was ok?

 

I also think, that if he was trying something, he wouldnt have ended the conversation that fast right?

[Ronni_W]

I agree with you: he was just being caring in that moment and he would've stuck around longer if he wanted something more.

 

BTW, like your 'every tissue has a story' concept...thanks for sharing. Thinking it'd make a great book . People (me included) do get emotional at "good" stuff, too, so there are a whole bunch more chapters you could write, from that angle.

[Graduate]

Wow, that must be weird, to suddenly hear from him after two months. But I can understand that this made you really happy.

 

A long time ago, a few weeks after my breakup I got a text from my ex just congratulating me that my team had won an important game. That made me really happy, to think that he still thought about me and cared enough to congratulate me on something he knew would made me happy. It is a great feeling to know our exes still care, isn't it?

 

My take on your situation is that he saw your nick, got curious and simply messaged you without thinking about it. You are right, he probably did not try to get back together, but it seems that he still cares about you as a person and wants to know what's going on.

[cant let go]

Or was he just being caring at that moment and making sure everything was ok?

 

I pick answer c

[Mylife]

Yes, I do agree with you all, that he cares so he messaged. Its good to know that he doesn't hate me, and I know that if it ever comes to the worst of any situation at anytime, I know I can always count on him to help me and be there. That is if I even need HIM specifically. But it does feel real good to know he still cares for me as a friend.

 

On another random note, I watched a movie today, a girl experienced her first love and her first man's touch and her first kiss. Made me a little upset, feeling alittle down now. But I know I'll be ok, if I can go through these 2 months, I can go through this one night.