Rowen Posted December 14, 2007 Posted December 14, 2007 She just unblocked me i guess on msn again. We started talking like normal during the breakup. Then she suddently blurts out that she misses talking to me. THis is the first time she has ever said anything like that since the breakup in the last 3 months. Our convo was basically an hour and a half long, we were remenissing. I know people will get on me for this, but I was just going with what I felt. She even said during our convo that she started to tear up. She also said " we really do know each other well eh?" She opened up, that she has been doing not well, failing her exams, working 6 days a week and made an excuse for not texting becuase her cell fell in the toilet. She talked about my old pajama pants, and shirt, she still has! We joked, laughed and had a really good convo. SHe mentioned absolutely nothing about her new bf at all. What do I do......slash waht just happend, slash WAHT THE ****!
heartoutside Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 play it cool for now...I know your asking yourself a million questions, but keep your focus and try not to get caught up in it.......don't mention her BF, if she brings it up fine. But don't talk about it. Let her be for right now, read my thread too. Storm gives some good advice in it.....
CaliGuy Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 The more act (and really feel) like you are doing fine without her and don't need her is the second she'll come rushing back to you. I beg of you to remember how things ended. She made a concious choice. She needs to live with it.
cant let go Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 Any comments? I say, just let it marinate. No action is necessary at the moment but any action would have to be very very subtle. If you are comfortable talking to her then continue to reciprocate in the conversations when she initiates them. Be honest but not TOO honest. If you feel uncomfortable with the situation, just ask her for space and tell her you would like to continue to keep the distance between you guys. But before you do anything at all, be sure of what you want from this.
whichwayisup Posted December 15, 2007 Posted December 15, 2007 SHe mentioned absolutely nothing about her new bf at all. She misses the 'friendship' part of the relationship, but not you in the sense of having you back as a boyfriend. Fact is, she has a boyfriend whom she didn't mention to you because it served no purpose to talk about him. You can't be friends with an ex, atleast not this soon. The only time that works is, when both of you don't have feelings of intimacy for eachother and you don't care as much, THEN the friendship can happen.
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