bing84 Posted December 14, 2007 Posted December 14, 2007 This is really out of character to post my emotions on the internet, but maybe writing everything out will help. I'm pissed, bitter, and angry at the situation that I've been placed in because of my ex. We were together for 4.5 years, throughout college. After college we planned on moving in together in an apartment while I waited for her to finish her degree. I was actually stupid enough to postpone (defer) law school for a year because she was planning on following me. Well a day before we were to move into the apartment together she breaks up with me via text message. We ended up briefly getting back together a month later only to have her pull away and flake off again. While we were getting back together I had an opportunity to move to NYC with a friend and had a job lined up to kill time before law school. I passed it up partly because of her, because she was starting to make promises of following me again. Well obviously she didn't mean a word of what she said and we broke up about a month ago. Now she is dating or trying to date an engaged man from her work. I want to feel that I've gotten over her, I've gone on dates with other women etc, but I'm still pissed at her for all that I have sacrificed for her. She is finishing her degree and has a job lined up as soon as she's done, and here I am twiddling my thumbs in my parents house for another 8 months before law school. I feel like i got the short end of the stick in this deal. She has moved on and is happy and I am just filled with anger and resentment. I guess all I am looking for is someone to help me put things in perspective.
Freddy Posted December 14, 2007 Posted December 14, 2007 Hey Bing hang in there, it's going to be very rough for sometime but that's what everyone is going thru. Concentrate on yourself and keep yourself busy. It's hard losing someone you love but if it's meant to be then it will happen. My EX was seeing her boyfriend for 5 years and after she found out he wanted to marry her then she eventually left him for me. She found out I wanted to marry her this year and and then we eventually broke up 6 months ago. What I'm trying to get at is that maybe she wasn't ready and found an excuse to leave. It happens, sorry.
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